this is why i struggle with yuri sometimes bc why doesn’t the top get the same amount of...

xylophone July 4, 2025 7:46 pm

this is why i struggle with yuri sometimes bc why doesn’t the top get the same amount of pleasure in return from the bottom (fem)? heteronormativity is already an issue in yaoi, but it’s glaringly obvious in yuri, where both partners MUST give and receive.

why can’t the fem characters give too? as a woman, i’d be mad asf if i had to carter to a pillow princess. nobody finds it sexy, yet it persists in yuri. like the top isn’t a boy… they don’t have a penis. does sex stop becoming pleasurable bc of that? can we not get creative with two female characters like we do with men? idgi.

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    m0lt4d July 4, 2025 8:22 pm

    stone tops exist… just bc you wouldn’t “cater” to a pillow princess doesn’t mean there aren’t people who would and this story is a clear example of that. i can understand the annoyance if you feel it’s too prevalent in the stories you read but as a stone top i absolutely find stories like this sexy so i’m sorry that wasn’t your experience but i don’t think it’s as big an issue as your making it out to be!! just read yuri with switch couples im sure there’s plenty out there

    xylophone July 4, 2025 8:29 pm
    stone tops exist… just bc you wouldn’t “cater” to a pillow princess doesn’t mean there aren’t people who would and this story is a clear example of that. i can understand the annoyance if you feel i... m0lt4d

    ok? i didn’t need your input.

    pepperspray July 4, 2025 9:30 pm

    ur stupid learn what stone tops are. R u even lesbian

    pepperspray July 4, 2025 9:30 pm

    Also yr leaving comments on a public manga comment section people are gonna leave input whether u want it or not . Sassy ass

    xylophone July 5, 2025 12:32 am
    Also yr leaving comments on a public manga comment section people are gonna leave input whether u want it or not . Sassy ass pepperspray

    it’s the way idgaf. i didn’t ask.

    AfemaleGirlwholoveswomentoo July 5, 2025 2:13 am

    They did scissor tho? So she was satisfied as well. And Im a top too and seeing my partner in pleasure gives me pleasure too so ig there are really those kind of people irl.

    rilakkuma July 5, 2025 6:19 am
    it’s the way idgaf. i didn’t ask. xylophone

    you originally brought up four questions are you stupid

    crazyy July 5, 2025 6:33 am

    Well I agree that we need more representation for butch bottoms and femme tops (or switches), but I don’t agree that it’s heteronormative for a butch to top, bc stone top butches exist. You may not like pillow princesses but stone tops do, and they belong with each other. It’s just a sexual boundary

    crazyy July 5, 2025 6:36 am

    Well I agree that we need more representation for butch bottoms and femme tops (or switches), but I don’t agree that it’s heteronormative for a butch to top, bc stone top butches exist. You may not like pillow princesses but stone tops do, and they belong with each other. It’s just a sexual boundary, and it’s not wrong for people to have sex in this way. It would only be wrong if you weren’t sexually compatible, like if you want to be pleasured but get into a relationship with a pillow princess — that’s why communication is important.

    xylophone July 5, 2025 3:20 pm
    you originally brought up four questions are you stupid rilakkuma

    it was rhetorical. pls stop talking to me.

    xylophone July 5, 2025 3:25 pm
    Well I agree that we need more representation for butch bottoms and femme tops (or switches), but I don’t agree that it’s heteronormative for a butch to top, bc stone top butches exist. You may not like pil... crazyy

    i like your perspective and feedback. thank you for the clarity. ig my preferences are different from everyone else. maybe it'd been better to say that i don't mind stone tops, i just want to see them bottom too. that's why i see it as heteronormative, but i'm not gonna yuck everybody else's yum. it's just me screaming into the void.

    Ash July 5, 2025 4:30 pm

    As someone who prefers to be top, to touch, lick, fingering and doing the foreplay is the highest form of pleasure. Not everyone have same "sense of pleasure" so saying same amount of pleasure is wrong already. That being said I really don't enjoy nor want to put anything in my pussy. If the other person satisfied then I'm also satisfied. You really can't just equalize everyone's taste to be the same.

    xylophone July 5, 2025 4:56 pm
    As someone who prefers to be top, to touch, lick, fingering and doing the foreplay is the highest form of pleasure. Not everyone have same "sense of pleasure" so saying same amount of pleasure is wrong already.... Ash

    that's valid! i see things differently, so i was speaking from a perspective that made sense to me. seeing that everyone's preferences are different, i'm realizing that some people just don't like to be touched in that way. but yeah, thanks for educating me.

    Schneiders 34th Hair Strand July 5, 2025 9:06 pm

    Bro got cooked then got mad
    If you're truly a lesbian you would've known there's different types of lesbian, so it was kinda ignorant/arrogant of you to get mad at other people talking about their experiences as a lesbian or what they know.. I'm happy you actually learned though.

    Anyways if you like hot masc pathetic lesbian to get topped I recommend reading "Only To You".

    xylophone July 5, 2025 9:54 pm
    Bro got cooked then got madIf you're truly a lesbian you would've known there's different types of lesbian, so it was kinda ignorant/arrogant of you to get mad at other people talking about their experiences as... Schneiders 34th Hair Strand

    i’m not reading all of that. save your breath.

    Schneiders 34th Hair Strand July 5, 2025 11:23 pm
    i’m not reading all of that. save your breath. xylophone

    Dude can't even read 2 paragraphs das crazy, we gotta open up the school again bc whaatt

    xylophone July 6, 2025 1:58 am
    Dude can't even read 2 paragraphs das crazy, we gotta open up the school again bc whaatt Schneiders 34th Hair Strand

    girl… you’re literally obsessed with me. bye.

    Schneiders 34th Hair Strand July 7, 2025 4:58 am
    girl… you’re literally obsessed with me. bye. xylophone

    I mean I'm only here answering to your stupidity, idk why I even entertained a fujoshit. You're right, I may be obsessed with you, despite your stupidity you're kinda cute!!

    xylophone July 7, 2025 9:46 am
    I mean I'm only here answering to your stupidity, idk why I even entertained a fujoshit. You're right, I may be obsessed with you, despite your stupidity you're kinda cute!! Schneiders 34th Hair Strand

    ok, run along now. go play in traffic or something, just stay out of my mentions love. it’s that simple.