
I don't understand your point we are reading this story from her pov but I still sympathise with the dude because the only thing he needs to apologise for hus not listening to her but then again he was manipulated by his aunt who he thought he could trust because she's been by his side longer than her he's hurting too he lost his whole family because of her 'family' be so honest rn would you trust someone who is from a family of people that made you loose your own??

You can't just minimise his trauma just because she has trauma too and ther his no one trauma is worse cause both of their traumas are just as important she tried to lean on a man that she knew wasn't even emotionally or physically available for her I'm not trying to defend the dude but I sympathise with both of them cause they both have really bad traumas you have no idea what loosing all your family can do to a person you have no idea what being abused by your so called family can do to a person either so stop saying that her trauma is worse just cause she was being abused both traumas are bad in their own way no matter how 'small' you think it is
I'm not making excuses for Theo when I say this; Liliy has been through hell all her life and that's established but at some point she began lashing out on Theodore just because he's the closest person she could blame. In suffering it's hard to understand others and weight issues so I don't blame her too much.
He lost his entire family, his blood and flesh to her "family" so I understand distancing himself from her from the beginning. Mind you he's very young too