You realise that getting affected by comments like those comes from a sense of insecurity and inferiority right? We all know its not true. Just say you want doyun to feel affected by this and suffer for the rest of his life and never grow. When a chance appears for him to finally get rid of these emotions holding him back you jump at the person giving him the opportunity. Mind you someone who CLEARLY loves him.
Im not saying he cant feel like this. What i am saying is that being stuck feeling like this forever is not good. One reason we read and watch things is so we can see characters grow and develop. If one of the things doyuns character was centred around is his feelings of contempt towards those who look down on him, then isnt it natural to see him grow out of it by the end?
If you dont like the fact a realistic character is showing realistic growth, then stop reading things you cant understand.
Hi, First I never said anything about not wanting him to grow out of his shell, and suffering for the rest of his life. Please don't put words in my mouth. Second, you say he was being given an opportunity to be free from that distress like he's a damsel in distress and like the girl was his savior as if she's solving the root problem. When clearly she doesn't understand, the suffering he has to endure because of other people.
Yes, she can build his confidence, tell him not to be affected by those stares and snide comments. But from where I stopped, I don't see her doing any of that. (If she did in the latter chapters, then that's good)
But it's easy to say that "you shouldn't let yourself be affected by other people" but it's not as easy to do so. Me, personally, I've known a lot of people who took the risk thinking they could handle it but alas, it wasn't that uncomplicated. And they only ended up hurting. Like I've said in my previous comment, that I hated how these kinds of situations are put aside so quickly for the sake of romance in a lot of stories. Growth is NOT easy. Building Self-esteem and self-assurance is NOT easy. If you think otherwise, then YOU'RE being unrealistic, not me.
So the comments I have made so far are REALISTIC, because I've made them from seeing REAL situations. And I obviously understood what I read since I can make these comments.
If you don't undersand my realistic comment, base from real life moments then you shouldn't have read it, And if u had no choice but to read it, you could've just let me voice my opinion and not put words in my mouth right?(⌒▽⌒)
This seems like a sensitive topic for you so i wont say much. I know growth is not easy but the way you put it makes it seem impossible. You're pessimistic about things therefore youre bashing an innocent character that HE himself said was different from the other mean people that looked down on him.
I can understand why your frustrated but your hatred is misdirected. The tag says romance not psychological. Its like ordering water at a resturant and getting mad that they didnt serve you orange juice.
○To me, it ended at chapter 76, cause I don't really give a fuck about her selfish sister who pushes the secretary to be with her despite him not wanting to. Cause let's be real, the shit from other people is NOT funny, and I totally understand and side with him if he's being honest that he CANNOT handle and does not want any of that. I admire other characters and real life people who can, but it's refreshing to see a character who's actually affected by those kind of things. Cause other stories will show those problems to give "difficulties" and THEN just push those kinds of things aside for the sake of romance.
○ But the selfish bitch she is doesn't even try to understand that and was even told to her face what it means for him to be with her so she could finally get it in her fucking thick skull. And she STILL insist. She's like " I don't care about our status difference" GIRL? This would be romantic if SHE was gonna be the receiving end of all that contempt from other people but no. HE will be the one getting all those disgusting stares and comments and he's saying he doesn't want that.
○ I know there are people like this in real life too and it pisses me off. If you know the person you like will have a hard time being with you AND they don't want that then leave them tf alone. She keeps pushing and unknowingly (hopefully cause if she did that on purpose then she'd really be an actual bitch) guilty tripping him.