Why does the bottom always have to be the virgin?

have you read “my boyfriend is a ticking time bomb” there are a few ones where the seme is a virgin

Actually there is a lot of mangas like that

You think so? ive already read them all. I even have my own list

I think because the uke is meant to mirror traditional feminine roles bc most bl characters are straight and bl and yaoi are usually just a sexualization and fetishizing of gay men with poor representation or respect for what a gay relationship actually is like, the uke is meant to be like a traditional “good girl”. Little to no sexual experience, small, feminine, unrealistic proportions and skin coloration and naive. Sexual experience for whatever reason represents desirability so ig they think the one getting pounded is less desirable if they’ve had experience, much like how men call women whores if they have a lot of sex but men can do whatever they want.

I think because the uke is meant to mirror traditional feminine roles bc most bl characters are straight and bl and yaoi are usually just a sexualization and fetishizing of gay men with poor representation or respect for what a gay relationship actually is like, the uke is meant to be like a traditional “good girl”. Little to no sexual experience, small, feminine, unrealistic proportions and skin coloration and naive. Sexual experience for whatever reason represents desirability so ig they think the one getting pounded is less desirable if they’ve had experience, much like how men call women whores if they have a lot of sex but men can do whatever they want.

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