What if he’s ugly but he treats you like a princess? Like am I a bad person to reject hi...

Lightstickdigger July 21, 2025 5:50 pm

What if he’s ugly but he treats you like a princess? Like am I a bad person to reject him , we went on like 3 dates. I don’t think I can kiss him. Please girls tell me what to doooo. He’s such a green flag but shrek kinda green.

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    nimonomino July 21, 2025 5:55 pm

    attraction is one of the most important factor in a relationship. If you don't find him attractive or if you're not romantically interested in him, it won't work. So no, you're not a bad person for not liking him. Everyone has their own preferences and that's okay. Just because they're a good person, doesn't mean you have to date the despite having no romantic interest

    Seli July 21, 2025 5:57 pm

    Girl, you don't own him anything. If he treats you nice and you don't feel any attraction then maybe just stay friends. Just reject him nicely and tell him you appreciated the time :) you got this and don't feel bad

    Happievet July 21, 2025 5:57 pm

    I mean if face is your goal then leave I guess, but he sound a like a 10. It really up to you to decide what kind of person you want to be with.

    Glass0dara July 21, 2025 6:04 pm

    Looks shouldn't matter if he's funny

    bibblesb July 21, 2025 7:30 pm

    Just because he treats you nice does not mean you owe him something, if you clearly do not feel attracted to him then you dont have to force yourself into liking him, just kindly reject him and thank him for everything he has done so far, in the end youre doing yourself and mostly him a favor so in the end both of you can find your true respected partners

    Tanny July 21, 2025 8:04 pm

    Don't date him if your heart's not in it.. you'll just end up cheating and it's worse than rejecting him now

    Cadapech July 21, 2025 9:19 pm
    Looks shouldn't matter if he's funny Glass0dara

    Except it's asinine to date someone you are not personally attracted to. If she's not physically attracted to him that's fine and she can say that, same with any other person that doesn't mean they can't be friends if he also wants to stay platonic.

    Lightstickdigger July 22, 2025 2:16 pm

    Update: guys i told him I cant be in a relationship because he’s not my type. He kept pressuring me like what’s wrong, and he can change, but it’s really rude to say that I don’t like his looks so I’m just ignoring him at this point. I said we can be friends but he said he cannot. So I can’t do anything but ignore him.

    Cadapech July 22, 2025 4:20 pm
    Update: guys i told him I cant be in a relationship because he’s not my type. He kept pressuring me like what’s wrong, and he can change, but it’s really rude to say that I don’t like his looks so I’m... Lightstickdigger

    Glad you stuck to your gut; the pressuring isn't okay either and it's also okay if he can't be friends. You both just weren't a match for each other.

    Happievet July 22, 2025 5:18 pm
    Update: guys i told him I cant be in a relationship because he’s not my type. He kept pressuring me like what’s wrong, and he can change, but it’s really rude to say that I don’t like his looks so I’m... Lightstickdigger

    welp, if he said he can't be friend because you don't want to date him then just do it and not be friends, just be kind like you would woth a random on the road. You didn't click with him and that's totally okay and not your fault. Not a loss. Still stay safe and aware incase he does a 180, you don't know what kind of person he truly is after all.

    Glass0dara July 23, 2025 11:54 am
    Update: guys i told him I cant be in a relationship because he’s not my type. He kept pressuring me like what’s wrong, and he can change, but it’s really rude to say that I don’t like his looks so I’m... Lightstickdigger

    Let him Crack and break up