So, basically, all of the male figures Jaekyung grew up with had anger issues an encouraged violence as both a defense and release. The only soft figures - his mom and the old woman - commanded respect in their presence only. I’m sure the jinx part is gonna be super effed up, but we can’t already gather that all of his male relationships are either made from wary respect or violent challenge. Despite being gay, he fights with every man in different ways because that’s the only kind of relationship he’s had with men. Softness is reserved for women, particularly older women, while every man is a potential threat to Jaekyung’s existence.
My theory is that Jaekyung has always treated Dan like another man, but got confused when Dan took on feminine roles and softness (kisses) was introduced. When he’s with Dan he sees a man but feels feminine energy, so his responses are confused and he gets triggered randomly. He wants to fight and yell, but also keep and hold. He hasn’t done any therapy to work through any of that, so of course he’s a mess.
So, basically, all of the male figures Jaekyung grew up with had anger issues an encouraged violence as both a defense and release. The only soft figures - his mom and the old woman - commanded respect in their presence only. I’m sure the jinx part is gonna be super effed up, but we can’t already gather that all of his male relationships are either made from wary respect or violent challenge. Despite being gay, he fights with every man in different ways because that’s the only kind of relationship he’s had with men. Softness is reserved for women, particularly older women, while every man is a potential threat to Jaekyung’s existence.
My theory is that Jaekyung has always treated Dan like another man, but got confused when Dan took on feminine roles and softness (kisses) was introduced. When he’s with Dan he sees a man but feels feminine energy, so his responses are confused and he gets triggered randomly. He wants to fight and yell, but also keep and hold. He hasn’t done any therapy to work through any of that, so of course he’s a mess.