
Hey so no matter what his backstory was doesn't justify his actions. Sure, I do feel bad for what he went through, but what he did to Dan and how he treated him shouldn't be justified because of it.
“Bad Trauma”? Yes, not everyone experienced something like that, but surely, as an adult especially, he has a rational mind as to not treat Dan like what he did.
“Oh this is what happened in my past.” That shouldn't be an excuse tho?
I'm only replying because of your statement about how bad trauma fucks you up. And yes, you can be empathetic and not bring it up, totally understandable, but if your trauma response involves you treating people horribly then I suggest talking things more with your therapist.
That's all.

hey! thanks for the very detailed explanation. really appreciate it.
I'm not at all undermining whatever happened. i totally agree he's a POS. i am not saying it justified his actions at all tbh.
just that as a Jinx reader since day 1, it's very frustrating to be seeing people bring it up over and over and I've seen the same people comment about it. like we get it. he's done shit, i personally feel the author took a hiatus cause of how much hate this was getting and honestly there are FAR worse tops in the BL universe, like have y'all seen Sangwoo in killing stalking?? omg.
that's where I'm coming from. and i really don't have to justify myself as to why I find this whole thing frustrating but since you took the time to reply, so am I, it's simply cause at the end of the day this is a fictional story and none of these people exist but as a story enjoy seeing how it goes, most of the people just come here to hate on it.

for once I'd just like to enjoy an update where everyone isn't mad pressed like their life depends on it is all. IDK why it really triggered me today it usually doesn't. maybe it's the fact that this thing was on hiatus for 4 months and still people are camping here on it. i didn't intend to trigger you either, i apologise if it did. you have a good day/night ahead. :)
can y'all stfu? like it's okay to be empathetic without bringing up this shit over and over again. like y'all are more pressed by his trauma response than his therapist.
some of y'all don't understand how bad trauma fucks u up and it shows