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You’re so right!
I get it, so like a way of explaining the probable cause of his outbursts and the way he treats people, but not excusing it?
I don't think people will ever forgive him, myself included. He really needs to figure himself out before even trying to work things out with Dan
In Korean BL logic, this is mean for the author to create the excuse for seme behavior towards the uke
Cause the author need to make them together in the end
It’s not meant for empathy I think, it’s prolly trying to explain his behavior as cycle of violence is a pretty solid sociological study. People who grow up in violence end up growing up to become violent themselves or end up in situations with violent people cuz that’s what they know, kindness to them is like a mirage, inauthentic and not as easy to trust so they become messed up individuals. Although some people break out of this cycle, it’s tough to do it when you aren’t aware of it