his backstory just made him look like an idiot honestly, like I don't get others who hurt ...

Dr-Erotica July 24, 2025 5:51 pm

his backstory just made him look like an idiot honestly, like I don't get others who hurt others the same way they got hurt, like I don't want others more so my loved ones the same pain I have endured

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    ghurl August 12, 2025 10:36 am

    It’s not right to call someone an idiot because of that. It’s not uncommon. That’s why they say to “break the cycle”. Sometimes easier said than done. I’m no expert but sometimes people don’t know how to change a behaviour they learned and will project it to others even if it’s something that hurt them in the past. I could speak from experience (will not elaborate). I’m aware I have to change, but it’s like an automatic response sometimes, and I always reflect afterwards. I’m glad he has the chance to change. Of course it’s tragic that they have to go through a “second life” for them to get along or whatever, but they’re given a second chance. His backstory doesn’t make him look like an idiot. It gives a reason to his actions. It doesn’t excuse his actions, but I don’t see why he can’t be allowed to learn and improve.

    Dr-Erotica August 12, 2025 12:33 pm
    It’s not right to call someone an idiot because of that. It’s not uncommon. That’s why they say to “break the cycle”. Sometimes easier said than done. I’m no expert but sometimes people don’t know... ghurl

    if you didn't learn from your own history and ended it projecting to others especially if you witness the outcome from your own story, then that's what I call an idiot

    ghurl August 21, 2025 9:27 am
    if you didn't learn from your own history and ended it projecting to others especially if you witness the outcome from your own story, then that's what I call an idiot Dr-Erotica

    Okay, mr or miss or whatever perfect lol. You know what being an idiot is? Being narrow minded and focusing on ideal situations instead of being open to all kinds of situations. People make mistakes. It’s the reality of life. It’s just up to the person to change which is not always easy. My favorite saying goes “everyone has the chance to change but not everyone will change”. It was a bad comparison because the character and I’s situation are different in a sense but sure, I’m an idiot because I brought it up. But the point was that no one is perfect. People who judge right away and easily throw insults around just annoys me. Oh well, it’s a story, not that deep so whatever. You should be reading fairytales instead so you can find and judge ‘perfect’ characters. Bye.

    Dr-Erotica August 21, 2025 9:34 am
    Okay, mr or miss or whatever perfect lol. You know what being an idiot is? Being narrow minded and focusing on ideal situations instead of being open to all kinds of situations. People make mistakes. It’s the... ghurl

    A jackass then