I live with two friends right now. One of whom I feel as though I could live my whole life with. Are we in love with each other? No, not at all. But do I love her? Hell yeah. I think their relationship might be confusing, all the more so to themselves as well. Especially if people keep putting them into boxes, keep making assumptions. I can't attempt to fully understand the feelings Arita has, but at the same time, I think I do. Love is so multifaceted. Platonic love or romantic love, it's all love in the end. What matters most is that you care for them, they care for you and you both fit well (to put it very simply).
I used to get confused with terms like aromantic and asexual. I think I understand them a little better now, yet I feel like it's also okay if you don't want to put a label to what you are what you feel. I used to think I was straight, then pansexual and now I agree more with demisexuality. Only to come to the conclusion that if I don't know, that's also a reasonable answer to have, at least to myself.
This was a nice read. For all sorts of reasons. I've been asked once about my sexuality and felt at odds with what I wanted to say, always. Now though, I think I'm content with saying nothing haha
I live with two friends right now. One of whom I feel as though I could live my whole life with. Are we in love with each other? No, not at all. But do I love her? Hell yeah. I think their relationship might be confusing, all the more so to themselves as well. Especially if people keep putting them into boxes, keep making assumptions. I can't attempt to fully understand the feelings Arita has, but at the same time, I think I do. Love is so multifaceted. Platonic love or romantic love, it's all love in the end. What matters most is that you care for them, they care for you and you both fit well (to put it very simply).
I used to get confused with terms like aromantic and asexual. I think I understand them a little better now, yet I feel like it's also okay if you don't want to put a label to what you are what you feel. I used to think I was straight, then pansexual and now I agree more with demisexuality. Only to come to the conclusion that if I don't know, that's also a reasonable answer to have, at least to myself.
This was a nice read. For all sorts of reasons. I've been asked once about my sexuality and felt at odds with what I wanted to say, always. Now though, I think I'm content with saying nothing haha