I live with two friends right now. One of whom I feel as though I could live my whole life...

xixmars August 2, 2025 12:17 am

I live with two friends right now. One of whom I feel as though I could live my whole life with. Are we in love with each other? No, not at all. But do I love her? Hell yeah. I think their relationship might be confusing, all the more so to themselves as well. Especially if people keep putting them into boxes, keep making assumptions. I can't attempt to fully understand the feelings Arita has, but at the same time, I think I do. Love is so multifaceted. Platonic love or romantic love, it's all love in the end. What matters most is that you care for them, they care for you and you both fit well (to put it very simply).

I used to get confused with terms like aromantic and asexual. I think I understand them a little better now, yet I feel like it's also okay if you don't want to put a label to what you are what you feel. I used to think I was straight, then pansexual and now I agree more with demisexuality. Only to come to the conclusion that if I don't know, that's also a reasonable answer to have, at least to myself.

This was a nice read. For all sorts of reasons. I've been asked once about my sexuality and felt at odds with what I wanted to say, always. Now though, I think I'm content with saying nothing haha

Responses
    crimsoncrow October 10, 2025 6:53 am

    the amiguity comes from they was they introduce each toger to other ppl. Like if they simply just say oh that just my roommate, ppl will be oh ur room mate thats cool. Or like your acquaintance friends lovers cool.

    Btw saying roommates even if they are comfortable to live together or feel like platonic soul mates wont box them to anything or simply saying friends or aquanlainces

    The misunderstanding comes from the fact that they lowkey try to dodge saying taht when introducinge ach other to other ppl wayyy too similar to when other like all the same signs of hiding a crush or lover.
    Like its not one thing or other but like majority. That's why ppl misunderstand, and the fact that florist mc is wayyyy to quiet and reseverd and disnt seem to outright b like thats my roommate or friend, and the whole working up thing when ppl thought they were lovers or its a crush.

    Just say my soulmate. idk it feels like its a soul connection bordering love i suppose?