girl bye im tired

bunbun_ August 3, 2025 4:04 am

some of yall said that joe can give ian stability and normal life but after chap 70 onwards did the 'normalcy' still in the room with us? both of them are accomplice to that murder and if not bc of tj's side cleaning that mess, what do u guys think would happened? both of them running far away while being hunted by the gang? joe sacrificing his everything? family? what about his normal life? his studies? his future job? none of yall discuss that, i feel like it is very shallow to decides who is the best character for ian as if he is a damsel in distress, we are talking about an ex gang, a murderer over here. tjian has been miscommunicating a lot bc of their circumstances but whats stopping joian from communicating properly? did joe ever ask anything when he is with ian (he have all the chances to ask when he got a whole season 2 for himself and what else did they do besides having seggs?) he didnt know shit about ian and instead of asking him directly he went around asking about it from strangers???? and to think he is willing to sacrifice his 'everything' for a man he spends his time with for months is very impulsives to me. that 'everything' is the same thing that ian been wanting (family, normal life etc) and here is joe willing to throw it all like its not meant anything.
while yall said joe is giving ian stability but is the stability in the room with us? he got no job? no house and all i see is him squating in ian's place and is still jobless? been living off his aunts??? BFFR lol

all characters are not perfect, theres no green flag/red flag whatsoever. whoever ian decides to be with is up to him regardless what everyone says lol BUT I HOPE HE WENT TO THERAPY FIRST FOR GOD SAKE IAN u are hopeless dude

Responses
    Honey August 3, 2025 4:42 am

    LOUDER QUEEN LOUDER

    Plumy August 3, 2025 5:13 am

    tj doesn't even know about what happen in the alley lol
    Its so wild yall still lacks on what going on. Ian and Jo have been communicating well, more than whatever other relationships Ian had before. This is their first stump and Jo didn't press further knowing well Ian will brush it off. They have not reach that part to communicate after that night.

    Before the incident. Why tf would Jo pressure Ian knowing full well it would make Ian uncomfortable and is waiting for Ian to tell him when he's ready on his own. It was only when things got serious he had find out on his own hence him asking his friend what they know.

    Cut the bullshit. Jo is stable working at his aunts, the fuck you mean he has no job. He has room at his aunts whom he does housework for. So it's bad family helps family now and it's not stable enough for you when his original plan was to work there with his aunt and save money before leaving. Jobless my ass, only mf jobless is tj relying on blood money he doesn't make for himself.
    Yeah no shit all three are flawed but crazy you only pinpointed [wrong] information on Jo.

    bunbun_ August 3, 2025 6:14 am
    tj doesn't even know about what happen in the alley lolIts so wild yall still lacks on what going on. Ian and Jo have been communicating well, more than whatever other relationships Ian had before. This is thei... Plumy

    yeahhh communicating so well as if chap 71-73 didnt exist, jumping into rough seggs right after murdering someone? calling ian broken? pretending to sleep right after that? bffr

    Plumy August 3, 2025 6:39 am
    yeahhh communicating so well as if chap 71-73 didnt exist, jumping into rough seggs right after murdering someone? calling ian broken? pretending to sleep right after that? bffr bunbun_

    Learn how read. My comment implied [and said] they communicated well before the incident and the incident was there first stump which Jo did not press further on Ian because he knows Ian will brush it off hence him letting Ian leave [because he knew he wouldn't be able stop him]. With that said, lead me saying they have yet to *actually* communicate about said incident.
    But if you really think about it, they still communicated better during the roughness while both mental exhausted than anything Ian had when he wasn't so mentally exhuasted.

    The sex after murder was a foil to tjian first time after DK showing the differences in how the tops/seme react. Call Ian broken was a reality check to both of them and telling us that Jo understands why Ian is 'broken. He wasn't saying it with malice.

    Tbh just say you hate Jo because you don't actually take in full context. It's easier for you than sprending bullshit.

    bunbun_ August 3, 2025 6:41 am

    lol i aint reading allat, whatever helps u sleep at night i guess

    Plumy August 3, 2025 6:46 am

    Exactly proving my point, bai

    Ethanlee August 3, 2025 5:32 pm
    tj doesn't even know about what happen in the alley lolIts so wild yall still lacks on what going on. Ian and Jo have been communicating well, more than whatever other relationships Ian had before. This is thei... Plumy

    Speak ur truth Queen