Yall pls don’t make me defend a man 😭 Why is everyone so mad that he slept with other...

Sayo2594 August 4, 2025 9:43 am

Yall pls don’t make me defend a man Why is everyone so mad that he slept with other girls when they weren’t dating … like I have to assume you guys are young bc what is this

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    B4chplease August 4, 2025 10:08 am

    Its because he slept with someone while having feelings for someone else. If you need to sleep with someone to check if you like them you never liked them in the first place. Also people can have opinions regardless of age. Forexample: If you asked your boyfriend when he started liking you and he said he started *sometime* but then he says he slept with someone after telling you, its really confusing if he even likes you.

    B4chplease August 4, 2025 10:10 am

    Its the same thing as a cheater sleeping with someone else just to check if they still like them. If he would do it before the relationship he would do it in the relationship too. Just like justin bieber did to selena and hailey

    Lomi August 4, 2025 11:18 am
    Its because he slept with someone while having feelings for someone else. If you need to sleep with someone to check if you like them you never liked them in the first place. Also people can have opinions regar... B4chplease

    obviously the guy in the story doesn’t understand his feelings well cause it’s as if she’s his first real love, and because he doesn’t comprehend it he sleeps with other people. The two of them weren’t dating so there’s nothing weird about him sleeping with other people, there’s a difference between love and lust. You don’t necessarily need to love someone to sleep with them

    Turtle August 4, 2025 12:52 pm

    Thank you!!! I dont understand how some people say hes a cheater when theyre not even together

    Sayo2594 August 5, 2025 3:24 am
    Its the same thing as a cheater sleeping with someone else just to check if they still like them. If he would do it before the relationship he would do it in the relationship too. Just like justin bieber did to... B4chplease

    That is not the same thing as a cheater… a cheater cheats on someone they’re committed too. And bc you like someone it means that you can’t be intimate with other ppl?? They aren’t in a relationship and just bc he liked her at the time doesn’t even mean they were ever going to be in a relationship lmaooo

    Sayo2594 August 5, 2025 3:31 am
    Its the same thing as a cheater sleeping with someone else just to check if they still like them. If he would do it before the relationship he would do it in the relationship too. Just like justin bieber did to... B4chplease

    Like if he established to her back then that he liked her and told her that he liked her, I would understand everyone’s outrage but like he never told her about his feelings so she didn’t have any expectations for him and how he should be acting

    non August 5, 2025 6:16 am
    That is not the same thing as a cheater… a cheater cheats on someone they’re committed too. And bc you like someone it means that you can’t be intimate with other ppl?? They aren’t in a relationship an... Sayo2594

    right. I don’t even follow this story closely, I just see it on the updated every so often. Even skimming through the chapters, I feel baffled by everyone’s comments.

    How’s it a cheater if they were never together?? He’s slowly becoming aware of his feelings (high school), while she has no clue at all. No feelings were ever verbalized nor exchanged, so why’s there expectations placed?? They want this guy to do abstinence because of his eventual one sided feelings.. that’s literally insane.

    Lomi August 5, 2025 6:12 pm
    right. I don’t even follow this story closely, I just see it on the updated every so often. Even skimming through the chapters, I feel baffled by everyone’s comments. How’s it a cheater if they were neve... non

    yeah same… I think what we’re saying it’s common sense

    Sayo2594 August 6, 2025 4:45 am
    right. I don’t even follow this story closely, I just see it on the updated every so often. Even skimming through the chapters, I feel baffled by everyone’s comments. How’s it a cheater if they were neve... non

    Literally like I thought I missed some chapters or something lmaoo

    alpacajesus August 6, 2025 5:10 am
    Its the same thing as a cheater sleeping with someone else just to check if they still like them. If he would do it before the relationship he would do it in the relationship too. Just like justin bieber did to... B4chplease

    jfc using justin hailey and selena as an example is crazy cuz u don’t even know them personally and what they do in their own time u have to be like 13 bruh