Thank you! I swear if these authors learned how to implement a safe word into these damn stories their rough scary looking sex scenes would actually come off so much better because we know uke is like 100% consenting to it. Whenever there’s no safe word it’s like a horrible guessing game if uke is just whining or genuinely unable to keep going and actually being violated…sigh..
Haha, yessss. Even if the uke says "Stop" or "It hurts" many times, as long as a safe word is established, I would keep my mouth shut and won't complain lol. I assume people don't like having a safe word because it might ruin the sexual tension? But there are numerous ways to implement a safe word in a scene like this without ruining the tension; it all just comes down to the writing... In which the author kinda failed in this scenario.
Exactly. Exactly I agree
Ya'll, this is just bad writing lmao.
I swear, you can have all that dark fantasy and consensual noncon shit IF (and ONLY IF) the author set the scene right (by establishing a safe word and all that jazz) but they didn't. So now, it comes off as noncon. And that sucks.