
Back then both of them are high schoolers on first few chapters and had explained that she took the lead at early age due to what happened to their parents. She's near their age. Wtf. Not only that, just recently they just graduated. How is that considered grooming? People just use words without knowing the actual definition. Smh

I suddenly feel the need to educate people about what grooming truly is. Grooming is not liking someone who is younger than you, nor is it expressing your affection to someone who is younger than you. Even if you're an adult who is in love with a minor, that doesn't make you a groomer. But it does make you a pedophile. What makes you a groomer is when you start adding manipulation in the mix. Like financial, sexual or emotional manipulation.
For example, your ugly ass perverted uncle telling you he will be extremely sad if you don't touch his dick. Or your teacher telling you he will take away your scholarship if you don't touch his dick. Or your boss at your part time at that ice cream place saying he will fire you if you don't touch his dick. Or even when you end up crushing on an older guy and he says he'll give you a chance if you touch his dick. Or when you owe someone and now you have to touch their dick to repay them.
Well it can also be you touching vaginas. But the thing is grooming is literally manipulation but on a minor. Liking a minor is not grooming. Its just pedophilia. Is pedophilia bad? Yes, but that's level 5 bad, grooming is like level 10. Grooming is like pedophilia but with extra steps. So it's a higher level of bad.
Why is nobody talking about how that lady is grooming jiwoo and it's extremely pedophilic of her , like lady what business you have with a seventeen year old when you're over 25