
Wait pause wth you reading bcs I basically always see the ml’s being hoes. While mc is like the pure has had no one in their past. Like genuinely what are you reading, unless i misunderstood your comment. Because it always upsets me when the MC is some kind of pure dove before the male lead. Like I personally like when the MC has had past relationships romantically and/or sexually but hardly see that. OR when MC and ML arent together but I like when MC gets with someone else because it’s realistic to me especially when ML does the same all the time in most stories I think.

I don't read toxic stories, and I stick to shounen ai, don't read smut that much anymore so all the stuff I read is like green flag stuff, and it's always that even if there's someone in male leads heart from the past, like a different life or something, it somehow always manages to be the MC. I like never see hoe male leads
Kinda a spoiler since I'm basically saying space Hyung is the mc
I hate how in BL the male lead is like always an untouched pure fairy, especially in stories with
grown adults. Always have no one but mc in their eyes even though MC is allowed to get around as much as he wants. I think its just sexist, as most male authors write women to be like that while most female authors write the ml to be like that no matter the gender mc is. Convinced its just sexism and purity culture, and it's gets on my nerves like cmon I can't be the only one.
EITHER WAY no shade to ml but the whole space Hyung thing feels really forced because there is absolutely no way anyone stays in love with someone they met once in their childhood so much they base their whole personality on it and are willing to die on it. Ik its not impossible, it just feels like the way ml goes about it is a really excessive way of pushing the ml x mc agenda, like he could quietly accept temporary guiding while getting stronger to help find space Hyung with his power, but hes so explosive about it (can't stand characters that be shouting all up on my screen idc if it's speech bubbles I can hear the echoes in my head and it's obnoxious I swear)