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i think that’s genuinely just the people around u rn, there’s a recent spike w ppl wanting to look cool on socmed which led to sooo many people being performative that it’s genuinely annoying so i get what ur talking ab honestly id recommend going on reddit or something to look for friends of the same interests cuz there might be an event around u surrounding that creativity (cons, flea markets, pop-ups etc)
I’ve noticed this too! Can’t explain it but I think it’s a lot of things. Firstly I think it’s your age group and where they are just at. I’m assuming you’re around late highschool to college aged because I am too and that’s the time where people are party and dopaminemaxxing essentially. Secondly I don’t think it’s everyone. I have friends who don’t like getting intoxicated and prefer to create, parallel play, or have game or movie nights. Thirdly (and you can take this with a grain of salt) I believe in astrology and believe that Uranus being in Gemini and Pluto in Aquarius could have some influence on the restlessness of people. I relate these alot to how fast people are consuming trends and media lately and how much people are craving new stimulating things- especially online. Plus Gemini includes community and communication, and Aquarius can relate to groups of people, friends, and more. I’m not an expert so there could be more contributing to this people I’ve been feeling like this too, and even seeing it in myself. The way I’m seeing people consume things lately has been really off putting and I’m not sure what to expect. Love island, Labubus, Dubai chocolate, Kendra in love w her psychiatrist, Sydney Sweeney ad, etc. I’m currently unemployed waiting for school to start so maybe I’m the problem and too consumed by online trends but I feel like our whole nation/generation is wishy washy in a way that gives me a headache to think about. But I have faith that a big portion of why this occurs is being in this young adult range and social media. SRY FOR YAPPING
I appreciate everything you just said because I agree with it 100%. And the comment above to about maybe the people around me and yeah I totally agree.
I mean the ones around are the only ones that like I can see these things from, and actually have the conversation s to understand why they just feel so detached. Media deff does not help.
Guys, something is going around, I find myself observing so much weird energy lately.
I don’t think people want to have any type of community anymore. Meaning that no one wants love. Like if I reach out to others, they make me feel that I’m a loser for wanting to do something creative, that doesn’t include social media, or heavily drinking.
Then there’s the whole dating scene right now, they have made it as if having genuine emotions make you a terrorist. Idk man something is happening right now, and I don’t get it.
I want to meet others and share meals, and also fall in love but it seems impossible and I’m scared that I just not be able to no day, as if I’ll just forget what it means to build something with another human emotionally you know.
But what’s your experiences out there?