What happened? Did you find out why he tried to get closer?
I'm sorry if I'm too straightforward but it made me curious
Uhm this I still have no effing clue, like I don't know the dude, but personally I ran away x) so idk what hee soo is doing, and the similar things is how I was vulnerable at the time, that he is younger, he is also attractive and i suppose it wouldnt be weird if he were popular, weirdly tho he kept going after me, and to me "stranger danger" is still a thing, so even tho he insisted and didn't want to leave I also insisted and he isn't in my life anymore, which is a relief, cause who tf is that guy anyway??
Like..The fact is he did love bomb, the fact is he did try to manipulate me into getting with him, he also wouldn't answer all my questions, he also played it hot and cold, haa all manipulation, and I really hate that. So for my peace of mind, I left, and sadly it was a bit late cause his love bombing had worked, and it hurt like hell when I started to realize a lot of t esus things he did, I even gained weight sigh, men. No friendship ever made me hurt like this so, srsly. Run as soon as someone love bombs you and they don't even know your name.
No worries! It's totally fine, if it can help you see some red flags early on and prioritize your safety and health that I'm glad you asked and I'm happy to share, just..seriously when it comes to real life, he isn't worth it, anyone who isn't their true self with you, anyone who can't make you feel safe, who can't be transparent with you, it's best to stay peaceful and single, than be with those who don't even try to understand or ever be compassionate with you, or be in relationships with someone who keeps hiding things from you, cause you'll be stressed, and knowing you were manipulated hurts like hell, and for me I lost my health physically after that relationship, it took 3 years and I'm still struggling to get back the health I had, of course for me I was also abused by a friend of 8 years, so..adding that, knowing he knew I was vulnerable and actually sick, I was seeing doctors and had hemorrhages, so please prioritize yourselves, your souks, your bodies, your hearts, your health is so precious and you shouldn't ever sacrifice yourself for anyone! Even less those who have harmed you, the thing I regret most is how much time and effort I have spent on helping those who never needed help but only wanted to drain my energy so I could be used by them, they isolated me from my real friends and from family, and now these bonds I'm working on reviving them again, while battling physicialy and mental illnesses, it hurts a lot, its tough and you'll find yourself having to do all this alone cause this is the consequences for your choices of putting yourself last, and now you must learn to prioritize yourself..haa at least for me haha, if it's helped people heal and choose themselves first, I'd be happy.
Wow, so much happened to you. I’m so sorry to read that. I agree with you that somebody like that isn’t good for anyone in real life because that’s so unhealthy and it really does drain one’s energy. Thank you for being so open and honest about what you are going through. It must have been difficult. And thank you so much for warning others about people like that and reminding me to take care of myself. I hope that you’re okay and getting better and that everything will be good soon. You deserve that. I also wish for you to find someone who isn’t toxic and loves you in a healthy way. Maybe not now but in the future when you are more secure. I’m rooting for your happiness! ヾ(❀╹◡╹)ﾉ~
Something similar happened to me too, with a man younger by one year, he did so much, it was weird..they come at your most vulnerable, not when you're healthy so that's already sus.