Why would anyone write something so cruel? Saying I don't wish you die but don't ever be h...

Why would anyone write something so cruel? Saying I don't wish you die but don't ever be happy, like do they want to feel like a good person who doesn't want the other person to die. But that's just physically tho, emotionally, isn't that person just wishing her to be a living zombie? Why would someone even say that to a person who just survived the accident? It isn't like she killed him, she almost died too. Sorry for the long rant, it's just people many times don't realise how much power words carry.