I feel exactly the same. I really love reversible couple. No cliché with a dominant seme nor submissive uke. Just two persons in love and with no prejudice about sex. Just my opinion.
yet, we live in times where lots of guys asks their gf or wife to take them in the backside, so....
expand your mind.
I love seke!! I also love plain top/bottom dynamics as long as it isn't strict (like in stories when bottoms want to top, but the tops never let them?? ughh i hate it!) But I still wish there was more seke works out there. It's such a rare find since yaoi is mostly written by women and they project male/female dynamics onto male/male couples which makes zero sense :/
Why people don't like when they switch in bed ? Is such turn on ! I like to see their dominant and submissive sides, specially when a strict top gives in to the temptation >:> , I don't get you people