lmao here I was thinking you did a little slap on her arm but instead beat her face tf up
You’re not REALLY wrong but beating her in the face kinda crazy lol.
my take is you shouldn't have hit her face you should just grab her hair because all the moms i know all sided with the one whose been hit first not the situation why did that happened. moms belief if you have fights then don't get physical.
icl gng, I would have whooped her bitchass sooner u too patient u did nun wrong, full support from my side hg Never feel bad about putting someone in place
and your situation screams favoritism.
And here I thought it wasn't even that big of an issue lmaoo
i know violence is not the answer but i'd do the same tbh i would not tolerate that amount of disrespect. also, i highly doubt talking to your sister would do anything, let alone your parents. i pray you can get out of that house as soon as possible
I can see the outerwear but she dipped into the underwear Disrespectful.
yall in the reply section speaks white asf, her sister was clearly in SO WRONG, she should have seen it coming. The user didn't even did shit, it was well deserved. Her patience snapped and she had it coming. If clearly the first adult person in family babies their bitchass, then the second adult takes place in improving. Simple.
You aren't in the wrong in this situation but i think something might be bothering your sister. Could just be her school environment or maybe the phase in life where she's kinda insecure about how she looks or similar to that and that causes her to be angry.
Also your mom might be taking her side because without any support, children (especially since she's younger) might tend to look towards harmful ways to cope. It's still wrong to make it so one sided tho.
My advice would be to try and talk to your sister if she's genuinely ok, try and share your experience in life so she can be comfortable and encourage her to do the same.
Tho if your relation is not as close, it def is gonna be awkward.
that's why i say just grab her hair because hitting her in the face makes the moms feel that one that been first hit is the victim.
Thats just most younger sisters, annoying but once they get older they usually wont be. And the mom always favours the youngest. She is an issue but getting Physical is a big NO. you can find other ways to get back at her without beating her up. Dont do her any favour, treat ur other siblings if u have any better than her, honestly just ignore her whole existence until she acts right. Ive gone without speaking to my sibling for a month
not wrong at all yo. It’s normal for siblings to get down like that and if she continues acting like this whoop her more, don’t listen to anyone telling you to use words or your mom saying she gon hit you back cs if your sister doesn’t want to listen one she has to listen the other, trust me I’m the youngest and whew my sister used to whoop me good (until I started fighting back so yeah beware) but other than that assert dominance I’m telling ya.
Sorry but some siblings need to be whooped. Can't let her go around thinking you're a pushover whose gonna let her take all your shit without a fight.
So just so you know I'm in a black household, there is no talking things out without me being told to shut up and be the bigger person.
I've also have tried talking to my mom about the constant disrespect from her but she basically told me to just ignore her and Lord I wish it was that easy to do
lmaoo , this reply + ur username
Unfortunately my sister has always been this type of angry selfish person, while we typically have a good relationship that's really just because I let a lot of things she does slide.
She probably doesn't understand my experiences in life but I guarantee you she doesn't care, like at all. As long as she keeps getting her way, she's probably never going to care. My mom just doesn't make it better for me lmao
Wish I could but we literally share a room, I can't get away from her if I wanted to.
I do have another sibling, but honestly I do my best to treat them the same. So I can't see myself doing one for the other and not her, so I guess that's just my issue to deal with.
And while I know my sister isn't the only one who's like this, I just feel like she's takes it too far. And I refuse to deal with someone like that who doesn't even listen when you try to explain what they did wrong (hence why I hit her)
I've done the same.
But did it fix her? No.
Did it put her back in her place? No.
Hitting was the outlet of your and my frustration, it rly was never gonna fix them.
I don't have a solution either. Idk how else to get the message across her thick dumb skull
no, bro. i'll give her a nice slapping too, and i won't hesitate to do it again lol
The only reason i disagreed with it is because hitting her will get you nowhere she will just continue being like this and your mum will get mad at you.I have 2 sisters it was lowkey hell growing up we had physical fights and argued so much but it gets better kinda.. i still wanna move out of this house tho. idk why moms have so many kids and favour the youngest its annoying asf. goodluck
Topic: Am I really wrong
Chat be real with me, am I wrong for putting hands on my sister? Like actually physically harming her because she pissed me off.
For context about my sister, she is the baby of our family and she's a very unaware selfish and just overly angry person. She literally will walk in a room full of cheerful people and find a way to ruin everyone's day just because she's upset. She's always yelling and being disrespectful, like it gets to a point right?
But the thing is, my mom is always taking her side one way or another. Sure she'll yell at her if she's yelling about nothing (which is almost everyday) but it's never nothing serious you know? That's as far as it goes.
But today I actually managed to have a good day of school, literally I thought nothing could ruin my mood. Then my sister came in, first wearing a hoodie she isn't supposed to be wearing and getting upset when she's told not to wear it anymore. Then even more pissed when she couldn't move her bed around like we didn't have people working on the air conditioning, then when I'm trying to tell her to just calm down she tells ME to shut up. Then I realized she literally had all of my new clothes on that I just got (To the fucking underwear on her ass). But even then, I was going to let it go right?
Then while I'm walking away, she tells me to shut up again with a little too much disrespect in her voice. So I come back, grabbed her shoes, threw them to the ground. Then well, grabbed her by the hair and hit her in the face a couple of times.
And like always, my mom only got mad at me and said next time I hit her she's going to hit me. But like damn, she constantly gets away with the shit but I'm always in the wrong? Like I can't get a pass at all?
So like be dead serious, am I the issue and just not realizing it?