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Theylove_RINA August 22, 2025 2:04 am

Topic: Am I really wrong

Chat be real with me, am I wrong for putting hands on my sister? Like actually physically harming her because she pissed me off.

For context about my sister, she is the baby of our family and she's a very unaware selfish and just overly angry person. She literally will walk in a room full of cheerful people and find a way to ruin everyone's day just because she's upset. She's always yelling and being disrespectful, like it gets to a point right?

But the thing is, my mom is always taking her side one way or another. Sure she'll yell at her if she's yelling about nothing (which is almost everyday) but it's never nothing serious you know? That's as far as it goes.

But today I actually managed to have a good day of school, literally I thought nothing could ruin my mood. Then my sister came in, first wearing a hoodie she isn't supposed to be wearing and getting upset when she's told not to wear it anymore. Then even more pissed when she couldn't move her bed around like we didn't have people working on the air conditioning, then when I'm trying to tell her to just calm down she tells ME to shut up. Then I realized she literally had all of my new clothes on that I just got (To the fucking underwear on her ass). But even then, I was going to let it go right?

Then while I'm walking away, she tells me to shut up again with a little too much disrespect in her voice. So I come back, grabbed her shoes, threw them to the ground. Then well, grabbed her by the hair and hit her in the face a couple of times.

And like always, my mom only got mad at me and said next time I hit her she's going to hit me. But like damn, she constantly gets away with the shit but I'm always in the wrong? Like I can't get a pass at all?

So like be dead serious, am I the issue and just not realizing it?

Responses
    Nerium August 22, 2025 3:02 am

    If you aren't significantly bigger than her, it's fair game. When I was 25 and my brother was 15 he towered over me so I didn't feel bad about beating his skinny ass down. Sometimes respect needs to be taught by a sibling before they go out into the real world. ¯_(ツ)_/¯

    URMOM August 22, 2025 3:07 am

    Omgg I literally have the same problem with my little sis 100% and it’s so draining I keep wanting to move out girl

    JungkooksUsedCondom August 22, 2025 3:12 am
    that's why i say just grab her hair because hitting her in the face makes the moms feel that one that been first hit is the victim. Monica

    Well having a mom who is like that, no matter what you do, the other child will always be the victim. Lol

    ocarinas August 22, 2025 3:19 am
    yall in the reply section speaks white asf, her sister was clearly in SO WRONG, she should have seen it coming. The user didn't even did shit, it was well deserved. Her patience snapped and she had it coming. I... JungkooksUsedCondom

    The race was unnecessary since you’re reiterating the idea that white people wouldn’t resort to violence but black people wouldn’t hesitate. That statement did more harm than good.

    blue August 22, 2025 3:25 am

    i have been in same exact situation you have been in as an older sister, the exact same. your little sister is in the wrong absolutely, she should not be treating you like that, and the mom needs to stop playing favoritism, however you are in the wrong too, while you have every right to be angry you shouldn't have been the first to throw hands especially in such a manner because not only does it make you look like the problem you could have potentially killed her. one wrong hit in the head can cause death. i understand being angry but we can't always give in to anger. as for what to do i don't recommend talking to your sister, she sees Shes bothering you and doesn't care so really it won't help and never worked for me. yelling and fighting wont make it stop either. you need to have a heart to heart with your mom about it. tell her how you feel and how things look to you, as the parent she has the power to change things, but you have to be mature about it not winey. i was winey and she didn't listen. so think about what you need to say and don't throw it at her because if she feels attacked even if its the truth, she will see you as the problem only. if she won't listen, your gonna have to push through till you can get out, put distance between you and your sister. dont even respond to her. and hide your clothes, do your own Laundry, and find a style that you like that she hates. i got into alt kawaii. if you guys have different body types, get clothes that only look good on you, she never took my clothes again.

    JungkooksUsedCondom August 22, 2025 3:25 am
    The race was unnecessary since you’re reiterating the idea that white people wouldn’t resort to violence but black people wouldn’t hesitate. That statement did more harm than good. ocarinas

    I never mentioned black lmao, and as a half white person, I know what I am speaking. So lol.

    ocarinas August 22, 2025 5:45 am
    I never mentioned black lmao, and as a half white person, I know what I am speaking. So lol. JungkooksUsedCondom

    Then why mention race at all if you yourself are half white? I’m black which is why I mentioned black and some of the comments said they were black as well. Bringing up race in this situation served no purpose.

    JungkooksUsedCondom August 22, 2025 5:56 am
    Then why mention race at all if you yourself are half white? I’m black which is why I mentioned black and some of the comments said they were black as well. Bringing up race in this situation served no purpos... ocarinas

    mannnnnn sit your ass back down , broski getting triggered for nothing. Like I saw other comments stating what the user was. There are people other than whites and blacks, you do fckin know right? are you mentally challenged? Like are you fckin srs rn? Being this sensitive over nothing is crazy.

    ocarinas August 22, 2025 6:35 am
    mannnnnn sit your ass back down , broski getting triggered for nothing. Like I saw other comments stating what the user was. There are people other than whites and blacks, you do fckin know right? are you menta... JungkooksUsedCondom

    The way you communicate tells me you’re only a pre-teen and don’t actually understand the weight of what you said and how I replied. It’s clear you can’t put my sentence and your statement together so the conversation ends here. Your statement would have applied to people of color regardless of the specified race. Overall, mentioning race was unnecessary and spazzing out asking if I have a disability because I said it was irrelevant is childish, JungkooksUsedCondom

    JungkooksUsedCondom August 22, 2025 8:27 am

    Just cause someone doesn't wanna be overly sensitive about something like your ass they become pre teen? LMFAOOOOOOOOO, I don't fckin understand where would you come up with that conclusion about BLACK PEOPLE? like are you actually fckin stupid? I had no fckin idea that the fckin user was black, I never fckin compared races, your stupid sensitive ass came up with that like there aren't any races other than whites and blacks. Like syfm dawg. The sentence was so fckin obvio A JOKE, it just meant as they are soft with each other and let there child slide. I NEVER SAID anything like "oH bLacK pEoplE wOn'T heSiTaTe" Like YOU JUST HAD TO BRING BLACK SOMEHOW. Is that how you fckin play victim everywhere and drag shit? You just had to push it thru like a bitch, who only thinks every sentence meant is racist like holy fck calm down. AND ALSO The user who was meant for wasn't even fazed. Its not that fckin deep dang. Everything doesn't need to be overfckin analyzed. And this is fckin internet, and also the last place where I wanna agrue with a person here. Like damn. Sit tf down.

    YourMomisOnmyBed2.0 August 22, 2025 8:40 am
    The way you communicate tells me you’re only a pre-teen and don’t actually understand the weight of what you said and how I replied. It’s clear you can’t put my sentence and your statement together so t... ocarinas

    LMAO YOU THOUGHT BLOCKING ME WOULD GET RID OF ME? nu uh.
    Just cause someone doesn't wanna be overly sensitive about something like your ass they become pre teen? LMFAOOOOOOOOO, I don't fckin understand where would you come up with that conclusion about BLACK PEOPLE? like are you actually fckin stupid? I had no fckin idea that the fckin user was black, I never fckin compared races, your stupid sensitive ass came up with that like there aren't any races other than whites and blacks. Like syfm dawg. The sentence was so fckin obvio A JOKE, it just meant as they are soft with each other and let there child slide. I NEVER SAID anything like "oH bLacK pEoplE wOn'T heSiTaTe" Like YOU JUST HAD TO BRING BLACK SOMEHOW. Is that how you fckin play victim everywhere and drag shit? You just had to push it thru like a bitch, who only thinks every sentence meant is racist like holy fck calm down. AND ALSO The user who was meant for wasn't even fazed. Its not that fckin deep dang. Everything doesn't need to be overfckin analyzed. And this is fckin internet. Like damn. Sit tf down.

    YourMomisOnmyBed2.0 August 22, 2025 8:43 am
    The way you communicate tells me you’re only a pre-teen and don’t actually understand the weight of what you said and how I replied. It’s clear you can’t put my sentence and your statement together so t... ocarinas

    AND USING MY OTHER ACC'S USERNAME AS AN INSULT IS FUNNYYYYYYYYYY Had a good laugh thank you. This mf wants me to put my govt username or sum. Get a load of this stupid user I can tell you are insufferable in real life.

    ocarinas August 22, 2025 1:19 pm
    AND USING MY OTHER ACC'S USERNAME AS AN INSULT IS FUNNYYYYYYYYYY Had a good laugh thank you. This mf wants me to put my govt username or sum. Get a load of this stupid user I can tell you are insufferable in... YourMomisOnmyBed2.0

    Like I said, you’re a child and accessing your other account to say something to me I won’t be reading. I said the conversation was over, so it was over. You’re being sensitive and childish.