I get that he feels like he's self sabotaging but I can't help but feel like he's also just too young lol. He wants things but can't communicate to save his life. Then he just lashes out at the person who cares for him most....
But at the same time the hyung needs to work through his own abandonment issues because he's coming off like he'll just do anything Yunho wants to ensure he stays ....
It's a weird mix of power imbalance between the two but the only obvious one is the age+finance gap of the hyung. It doesn't help that there's clearly more to the story with the way he broke up with his ex but Yunho doesn't know so ironically he ALSO has a fear of abandonment. The entire relationship in it's current state is just a time bomb
I get that he feels like he's self sabotaging but I can't help but feel like he's also just too young lol. He wants things but can't communicate to save his life. Then he just lashes out at the person who cares for him most....
But at the same time the hyung needs to work through his own abandonment issues because he's coming off like he'll just do anything Yunho wants to ensure he stays ....
It's a weird mix of power imbalance between the two but the only obvious one is the age+finance gap of the hyung. It doesn't help that there's clearly more to the story with the way he broke up with his ex but Yunho doesn't know so ironically he ALSO has a fear of abandonment. The entire relationship in it's current state is just a time bomb