You worded this so perfect
EXACTLY like to be fair he is self sabotaging but he cant help it, his hyung literally only wanted to date him so he wouldnt leave, Yun ho didnt even ask to date him yet the first week of them becoming a couple bro was rubbing it in his face that he was only dating him so he'd stay...n then he expects bro to be secure? Yun oh DOES need to work on his communication 100% but his hyung makes it a bit difficult
Yeah the hyung seems to be throwing whatever at the wall to see what sticks and all Yunho knows right know is that he's always been in love but he doesn't know what he wants beyond that. Crazy mix
I get that he feels like he's self sabotaging but I can't help but feel like he's also just too young lol. He wants things but can't communicate to save his life. Then he just lashes out at the person who cares for him most....
But at the same time the hyung needs to work through his own abandonment issues because he's coming off like he'll just do anything Yunho wants to ensure he stays ....
It's a weird mix of power imbalance between the two but the only obvious one is the age+finance gap of the hyung. It doesn't help that there's clearly more to the story with the way he broke up with his ex but Yunho doesn't know so ironically he ALSO has a fear of abandonment. The entire relationship in it's current state is just a time bomb