
well I understand their feelings since I also hate romantisized rape stories but alas, we can't stop them unfortunately so the best option is most likely just ignore them.
But you gotta understand that not all bl stories made by fujoshis have rape fetishes, you need to look REALLY deep dive to find those types of stories. You only see them a lot these days cuz they're so popular and influenced. (thanks to viewers always glazing them)
I could give you recs but idk what you like lol

Gay men have rape fetishes too ,often depicted in irl porn aswell.. its just life. That fetish makes me kind of sad but people cant help what they like, since its just drawings no ones getting hurt. Im sure if you want to change a person's mind being aggro isnt the way. I dont get the point in upsetting yourself by reading things that r obviously tagged as rape

i never said they didn’t. you aren’t getting the point. people who are not gay men are profiting off of depictions of gay men being raped and abused. i dont give a fuck if it’s just a drawing that isnt the point. a big problem for women right now is how men’s views of women are being affected by the oversexualisation of female characters that are also just drawings and pixels and their abuse. this is something my best friend cares very deeply about and i agree. fiction always subconsciously affects people no matter how much people claim it doesnt. that is why it’s so fucking infuriating that people who are not gay men are profiting off of this shit. it’s fucking disgusting.

I am straight fujoshis and I am against those type stories but to each their own this site doesn't force you to read those type mangas people search for them, so it's hypocritical to keep whining when you check each time for updates, stop with the internalized self hate like if you really don't wanna read get out

If they read on mangago actually they are doing the ethical thing by not supporting them financially, mangago is pretty bad for creators becuase they get $0 of profit. You should honestl y hype up the fujoshis gooning on mangago if you want to eradicate the genre. Otherwise they could perhaps get sick of the toxicity and pay to read it legally and have a more centralised community? Just an idea
You think its better when people who are gay men profit off depictions of gay men being raped and abused? Your wording confuses me. If its ok when gay men do it, isnt that misogynistic? That a man is allowed to fetishize rape but a woman isnt ? Why the divide in gender when we are all people who can fetishize and goon freely?
In my opinion women are NOT affected by the oversexualisation of female characters and its honestly slightly misogynistic to act like the struggle women go through is based on fictional creations and not a societal issue. Your heart is probably in the right place but it feels like ignoring the actual foundations of misogyny to blame it on something palatable and easily resolved. I definitely agree problematic depictions exist but it does you no good to tear hairs over someones goon material. Art and fetishes are a reflection of the real world but they are not the real world in of themselves. You can be influenced by it but a man with a low opinion of women doesnt have that due to fiction. He enjoys fiction that objectifies women because he has a low opinion of women and doesnt want to challenge his beliefs. You could see stuff like mangago goonslop as challenging your beliefs, aswell. Overall in my opinion you cannot Indoctrinate someone with fringe yaoi mangago porn. Morals are formed through conscious thought and life experience, not subliminal messaging. If you think the type of fiction you like gives you better morals, it just means they arent very strong convictions in the first place. I definitely think the stuff you like is can be reflection of your cahracter but it doesnt mean it guarantees the type of person you are. Thanks for listening!

there are literal studies on how women are affected by the oversexualization of fictional female characters i don’t care if you feel like that’s wrong or not look it up. the problem isn’t fetishizing rape itself and i honestly don’t know where you think i said that based on how i word everything i say. it’s about fucking homophobia like jesus christ wtf. so many straight women and other people who are not gay men are fetishizing and profiting off of not only an entire genre literally based on gay men but all of the stories that fetishize their rape and abuse too. this is not hard to understand.

Uh, rather than directing at a community as a whole and looking like a religious and devout inquisitor who screams and spreads ‘burn at the stake’ for every message they present, I believe you should direct the hate to the authors themselves..?
I mean, let’s be real, not all of the things you might possibly be hating on is by a woman/fujoshi, and as a guy myself, it’s kind of a huge side eye to see people being like that and making this type and other types of ‘harmful’ content all about men and it’s pretty normal to do so.
There’s respectful ones and ones who aren’t horncrazed by man tits or just the sight of men getting fucked so maybe not lump annoying fucks on the side as the whole.
And to be fair, while we talk about ‘benefiting’, the people making this lose out on money and don’t make the expected amount when it’s pirated like this, so I don’t know how they’re benefiting in any way maybe besides the pleasure of making said content. And it’s not like every content consumable with the same shit inside this one is ‘bad’, per say, and at the end of the day, it’s kind of extreme to preach without caring when wanting to be heard is to preach with care, example being not being a total ass at the other person giving their point as long as they’re not saying shit with over the line name calling.
Women are affected by oversexualization of fictional female characters, yes, but why is that brought up when the point about fictional MEN. Why are we bringing FICTIONAL women to the argument when it’s irl problematic people or straight women, as you say.
Maybe this isn’t how you intended to come off, but you’re basically saying ‘ONLY GAY MEN SHOULD LOOK AT THIS’ from one of your comments so like.. ? I don’t agree with that. Your tone sounds like exclusivity. Whatever people profit on shouldn’t be your concern as long as it’s not problematic, so maybe remove ‘gay men’ from your statement and stand with the rape and abuse as the main focal point rather than looking like it’s justification. Where do you intend to go with it
Also, making content like this isn’t ‘homophobia’, nor is it about it. If a straight woman makes a whole book about two gay men ostracized but having each other despite it with shit like rape as a moving point or so and so in the story, is that suddenly homophobia? I don’t get where the word came from besides fujoshis being homophobic irl and in general, which, once again, isn’t every fujoshi and not every person you meet is gonna click.
Stop using women as examples for something so easy as to say, “this content is literally problematic because of the elements inside” and instead use overall since men, straight or gay, have also made shit like this without having to scream “fuck straight women and non-homosexual males who like seeing two boys together!!! Heresy!!!”, once again, like a devout and religious inquisitor would. You’re like not for the girlies and this is not it
i fucking hate fujoshis