Yup 100% agree. She tried to message him, she was blocked. So she emailed him as her only source of communication. He ignored her when he passed by her, so she knows how badly she fucked up. Her owning up to it, is good! Bc she knows what she did was wrong. I don't blame him for being cold towards her though, she broke the man's heart. I can fix it for him
She can't just give up like that. Like oh because he doesn't want to talk to me I'll just give up. If she's really sorry, she should try to talk with him face to face not only once. Why she didn't use her skills when she's trying to seduce Shi Yan? If it's other way around, I bet most of people here will think that the guy is horrible because he didn't try harder.
I feel bad for Shi Yan because he's the one who got played and hurt, but he's the one who will chase after her. I hate author for this.
I get what you mean, but again, at the same time... he blocked all access for her to even do anything.... Ignoring her while they walk pass each other and email getting ignored should be a loud enough hint for her to stop...
sorry got cut off lmao. But yeah, if I got cut off that way even after the email I would just walk away too... no matter how bad she feels, she can't force shi yan to face her when he clearly doesn't want to see / listen to anything she wants to say (which is completely valid and I would do the same if I was him!) so her walking away is the same as her giving him the space and shit he needs after all that shit ..
I think the problem is the way the FL is trying to communicate. She is trying to do things on her time and when she is ready. She could have explained things over the phone, but she didn't. She could have tried contacting him after there phone call ended, but she waited days. She could have said something when she saw him, but she just stood there. She never expressed that she wanted to continue the relationship or that she wanted be given a second chance.
She was willing to give herself time, but she is not willing to give him time. She can wait days before contacting him, but he can't be upset and not want to talk to her. She is rushing him. You can't break trust and then rush the other person into healing. That is not fair. She basically gave up because he didn't respond the way she wanted in the time sh wanted it. At least, that is my opinion.
The thing is, "you can't apologize to someone who doesn't even want to talk to you". And she can't even message her personal because he block her, the FL is 100% fault and she knows, that's why she tried to apologize. But again you cannot apologize to someone who doesn't even let you talk or speak to him, and letting go is always the solution when you can't even communicate.