hey you can vent to me! Ive been 17 once and I have a little sister similar age. We csn figure something out :) but simple advice is to not take anything THAT seriously at 17 babe. Life changes all the time (if something of such matter is worrying you)
Ohh tysm for willing to hear me
Being deluded easily is the most stupid thing i could inflict on myself. Cuz i had a tiny crush on a guy i meet 2 weeks ago. I invited him to go swimming with us (a group). Our shared messages were going nice, we joked abt each other and it was pretty fun. But since one of my closest friend had been more intimate with him (i never dated before) hes now closer to her and colder to me. Like ayo. i even asked if he wanted to come today again for a swim and i bet just bc my friend wont go he wont too. Cuz when a guy says he doesnt know its cuz he wont go. LIKE bitch just say no for me to be reassured.
That last sentence of yours really helps with all the problems. Im pent up not bc of a guy but bc i take everything so pessimistic even thought i try to lie to myself that im just veing dramatic
Giiiirl, from my humble experience of dating it always comes down to one thing. And that is if the guy WANTS you, you WILL KNOW. Like you wouldn’t feel rejected and you wouldn’t be second guessing anything or any of his actions. Because men, if they like someone and want them by their side they show it. And if they cannot show it or aren’t doing enough for the other person, then they simply just aren’t that into you. From my perspective this guy just simply isn’t worth it. And if you look around and show up to places with confidence and believe in yourself and stay TRUE to yourself, I bet men will flock to you like little birds :)
I'm kinda helpless here and I know this website isn't the best to vent but I felt more comfortable this way. If there's someone willing to hear my 17yo talk issues I would feel very thankful