Same I want to know
I only have experience with one person, so I can't generalize but when you're in the moment and you want it harder and rougher, it feels great. But when you're not really on board with it (tired, body is kinda weird that day, idk), it sucks. I had days where I basically just laid there, tears spilling over, just hoping it would be over soon. I just felt kinda empty and used.
I guess it's kinda like exercising. When you feel like you're bursting with energy, going for a run feels really great but when you're feeling low and someone makes you run? Nah, not it.
Ohh got it makes sense
I'm sorry you had to feel sad btw :(
I wana know how rough sex feels.. if anyone has the experience they can tell me the details please