1 or 2

give it time you cannot just switch to choose someone to love take things slow be content with yourself without anyone

please help me :( , Ireally don't know what to say to him — I want that too but he isn't giving up that easily, even though he knows everything. tell me what to do

Girl look choose the one who you love the most or just choose the one who has proven through ACTIONS that he indeed loves you

it's not that simple:((

How so?i think of one of them loves you they will start showing it through actions but of is not like that then maybe go whatever heart want to?If you love guy 1 more then feel free to be with him.But if guy 1 doesn't show you everything then it's safe to go for guy2.Which I don't recommend cuz if you know him only for a week and he already tells you he lives then that's not good.

Neither.
If you loved guy 1 you wouldn't consider guy 2.
Guy 2 knows you're with someone else and tried any anyway. That's disrespectful.

Nahh. You'd better pick no one. To have a feeling for someone while entertaining another is bullshit. In entering a romantic relationship, one has to have a clear boundary of oneself and the people around them, and you missed that right on the mark. It's a basic rule and the most foundation of a serious relationship. If you're signing up for a relationship, but with clouded emotion, then that is nothing but a move to feed your own ego. You're just playing and embarking on a mere romantic escapade - a foolish move for a fool.

UPDATE!!!!

I chatted guy 1. I realized that guy 2 was just love bombing me and guy 1 was just still waiting all along.

JUST TO MAKE THINGS CLEAR!!! guy 1 and I have NO label, we were in a situationship. He never asked me and I thought we will never ask me out, that’s why I ended things off— I thought things wouldn’t be serious… ( but still came backI love the guy, sorry) I started entertaining guy2 when a little birdy told me that he already has someone in mind, and so , I decided to do the same. BUT THEN, that little b ahh wasn’t telling the truth (they were close friends so thats how i get infos of guy1) I SAID THIS BECAUSE guy1 said that he misunderstood , the girl liked him but he never liked her back.

anyway, it was going great until we there was another problem (actually the same problem I had with him beofre) and he decided to end things off but ended up taking his words back ://

me and the guy1 are good now, he actually asked me out

while guy2 already has someone.

I DONT WANT TO CRINGE YOU ALL OUT, but guy1 felt like the right one… It’s like fate really wanted us together. It’s that feeling That I can’t seem to take away from my mind? soul? It keeps haunting me everynight, that’s why—in the first place—asked for an advice here.

UPDATE!!!!

I chatted guy 1. I realized that guy 2 was just love bombing me and guy 1 was just still waiting all along.

JUST TO MAKE THINGS CLEAR!!! guy 1 and I have NO label, we were in a situationship. He never asked me and I thought we will never ask me out, that’s why I ended things off— I thought things wouldn’t be serious… ( but still came backI love the guy, sorry) I started entertaining guy2 when a little birdy told me that he already has someone in mind, and so , I decided to do the same. BUT THEN, that little b ahh wasn’t telling the truth (they were close friends so thats how i get infos of guy1) I SAID THIS BECAUSE guy1 said that he misunderstood , the girl liked him but he never liked her back.

anyway, it was going great until we there was another problem (actually the same problem I had with him beofre) and he decided to end things off but ended up taking his words back ://

me and the guy1 are good now, he actually asked me out

while guy2 already has someone.

I DONT WANT TO CRINGE YOU ALL OUT, but guy1 felt like the right one… It’s like fate really wanted us together. It’s that feeling That I can’t seem to take away from my mind? soul? It keeps haunting me everynight, that’s why—in the first place—asked for an advice here.

THANK YOU FOR YOUR ADVICE!!!

UPDATE!!!!

I chatted guy 1. I realized that guy 2 was just love bombing me and guy 1 was just still waiting all along.

JUST TO MAKE THINGS CLEAR!!! guy 1 and I have NO label, we were in a situationship. He never asked me and I thought we will never ask me out, that’s why I ended things off— I thought things wouldn’t be serious… ( but still came backI love the guy, sorry) I started entertaining guy2 when a little birdy told me that he already has someone in mind, and so , I decided to do the same. BUT THEN, that little b ahh wasn’t telling the truth (they were close friends so thats how i get infos of guy1) I SAID THIS BECAUSE guy1 said that he misunderstood , the girl liked him but he never liked her back.

anyway, it was going great until we there was another problem (actually the same problem I had with him beofre) and he decided to end things off but ended up taking his words back ://

me and the guy1 are good now, he actually asked me out

while guy2 already has someone.

I DONT WANT TO CRINGE YOU ALL OUT, but guy1 felt like the right one… It’s like fate really wanted us together. It’s that feeling That I can’t seem to take away from my mind? soul? It keeps haunting me everynight, that’s why—in the first place—asked for an advice here.

THANK YOU FOR YOUR ADVICE, UT HELPED ME ALOT

omg that was a rollercoaster and just to make syur if you're a minor it'll be better off to focus on yourself and studies but hey it's just a advice