Dummies out here expecting a child to react "appropriately" or "normally," when mind you, the kid is STILL developing, doesn't have a support system, distrusts the only actual adult that supports him, lives in a financially unstable home, gets bullied, and doesn't believe he has a safe space. Ya'll are fucking slow, like let's be a little more cognitive, yeah?? And for the comments expressing their annoyance 'cause he's immature, doesn't act right, or is annoying—because some of ya'll got hit and didn't react that way—therefore what he's doing and how he's reacting is dumb?? This genre ain't for you, seeing as a LOT of you can only perceive the main character and sympathize with her. Stick to slice of life, gng, this shit is above your reading level
No, even when I was younger and my house was dysfunctional it's not normal to call a family member an abuser.
He did deserve that slap tho
Well it's okay to be upset at a character who says to the other character (who was shown enduring a lot of workplace harassment just to support him) cruel things.
Honestly him holding a grudge isn't even the problem, wat is wild, him telling his sister to die like his parents?
She grew up as a minor in the same functional household as him brah.
Idk it's insane to me, even she realises wat she did and regrets her actions, I wish he realised it now that he's older why she even hit him in the first place.
like why does he not call his aunt an abuser? He also saw his sister get hit and abused.
But oh well...I just hope inseop spares him and kills that disgusting cousin.
and that’s just you and your family , not everyone will behave like you
TELL EM
I think he need more then one slap. He is a shitty brother.
Yeah, a shtty self-absorbed person like her brother will behave like shit.
Yes at the time of the abuse he was a child that may have not understood what his sister was going through because he didn't experience it. So it was kinda "ok" to be ignorant. But he's a whole teenager in high school, he's aware of his sister's struggles, he now understands somewhat of what his sister went through with their family. Now not only is he adding to his sister's struggles but he's part of the problem. Not saying that his abuse isn't valid, but before he was even abused he literally saw what she went through.
He should literally have some understanding and compassion for his sister. Plus isn't he living with her??
he’s literally a product of his environment not his fault that’s all he know when he’s copying the adults as an impressionable child
Understanding and compassion is something learned, where would he learn that if he has no safe space??
What are you talking about? Are you fantasising? He had parents before. Did they also slaped his sister around and wished she was dead?
Well we haven't seen him and his aunt interact at all so that's an assumption, and again sure they lived in the same household, but they lived in the same household at SEPARATE age stages, his sister was more cognitive of what would happen to them after their parents died and also again him telling her to die is him being reactive to his environment plus he's at an age where saying shit like that to HIM doesn't have much weight because he's young, not an excuse but it rlly shouldn't be surprising a kid would say crazy hurtful shit right after his parents died to press on the buttons of the person to him betrayed him in that moment
So considering his age, all these different exposures to unreliant adults and toxic environments, bullying, possible SA. Because *you* also had a dysfunctional family his reaction to the only other person he trusted hitting him, after attempting a conversation right after their parents died is not considered your normal. Yeah bye
So what that he's a teenager?? This kid does not trust his sister after she hit him during a very high tension time period, the only guardian figure he trusted at the time. Plus the kid doesn't have a support system: as in he has no friends, no guardian figure, safe space or ANYONE he can trust to be vulnerable with, and no coping mechanisms considering he's never talked to his councillor about his SA, we also don't know if his therapy is aligned with his needs because he's so reluctant to open up. He's being reactive to an environment and obviously has delayed emotional development. Compassion and understanding is learned, how would he learn that if he never felt safe or allowed himself to be vulnerable if he no longer trusts her??
Yeah go ahead and move onto slice of life
Yeah go ahead and reread that or move onto slice of life gng this aint for you if that's all it takes for the kid to be normal
There was literally a panel of him watching his sister get slapped by his aunt and he cries next to her....
Also it cuts to him sleeping peacefully while his sister cries alone btw (no reliant adult around her nor a space as well)
I think you're downplaying his actions and defending him because he's personal to you, it's just a manhwa, i just didn't like a character who has so far been shown to be self absorbed and says disturbing shit about the only person who has cared and worked super hard to provide him a living, peace.
So because I can analyze that both siblings are victims and can understand that a child who grew up without a stable environment AND never felt as if he had a safe space, therefore would obviously become reactive: telling dummies on the internet that they're slow, I'm projecting some sort of trauma okay . So being aware of the fact a child who possibly **only** grew up around a reactive and dangerous environment for when a child is most impressionable, unlike his sister who possibly grew up to her middle adolescents with some sort of normalcy with her parents: considering she was cognitive of what would happen to them after their parents deaths and was obviously distressed. While her brother seemed to be oblivious to what was happening around him considering his lack of worries, PLUS his lack of understanding to the weight of his words, saying anything to hurt his sister. No one's down playing shit, and no one said the kid was a good person. OBVIOUSLY the sister is going to be more AWARE as she is at a more cognitive developmental stage than her brother, ESPECIALLY if she had a somewhat normal upbringing before the car accident. How could a child who has ever only ever known discomfort or fear learn to be compassionate or understanding when the kid has no friends to learn from, an environment that allows him to feel safe or a healthy community to pick up from. He obviously doesn't trust his sister so there was no chance he'd ever learn from her or give her a chance considering what happened to him after he lost trust in her as a child (the grooming and possible SA). Like be fucking fr.
Nahhh y'all irritating tf outa me in these comments. Ya'll are gonna blame a kid in a dysfunctional household, for getting upset he got hit by probably the only guardian he could trust?? HES A CHILD. Obviously he's gonna say hateful and hurtful shit he learned from the other adults, like his aunt. Was it right? obviously not, but y'all have had emotional outbursts too, be so fucking for real, the kid's in a dysfunctional home with no one to rely on but his minor sister, how tf is he gonna react right?? Like sorry little bros not the perfect textbook victim tf?