Ya'll are slow and pissing me off

So, for all of y'all who think being able to have decent reading comprehension means I'm a victim or projecting trauma, guess what? I have an educational background in psych AND work with adolescents and younger children, meaning I work with kids as young as four to mid teens. So gtfo my face. I'm not saying I'm goddamn Einstein or haha i'm right you're wrong cause i'm smart, but holy fuck, y'all just keep proving to be slow. NO ONE is defending that he's a good person, which ya'll very apparently can't comprehend, so Ima say it in one sentence since it needs to be spelled out for the delayed. He is a a troubled youth who is being reactive and hurtful because he believes he has no where to turn too and he aligns himself with self deprecating ideals as MOST victims do, what he's saying or doing IS NOT A SURPRISE, he is reacting in unhealthy ways because he does not know HOW to react. So as I said in the topic, y'all are slow and pissing me off and this genre ain't for you stick to slice of life

And Ima add one more thing, which I replied to another topic, I'm putting it here to add a more in depth comment and not repeat it so many times.

Who ever said he was getting a pass??? No duh he thinks similarly to their extended family--when he was more conscious of actions and words that's ALL he learned from, when someone is placed in a prolonged environment which they do not feel safe in to be vulnerable, why wouldn't they be reactive and use the same behavioural tactics????

The kid has no where else to pick up from to understand what is appropriate and why he should be understanding. That said, nothing he says or does is a surprise, if he doesn't trust her he won't make an effort to be nice or understanding or compassionate, she is not someone he sees himself being vulnerable too.

And before you go off on how 'oh so cause he's traumatized his sister needs to keep reaching out'. She isn't obligated to do shit and that's understandable.

But do you think abuse victims are aware of harmful habits to themselves or others when they're still a teenager???? Most adults victims only realize unhealthy patterns of behaviours when they hit their 30s, and that's not considering a lot of outside factors just on when most adults finish developing. He's a reactive kid who doesn't believe he's in a safe space, so ya'll saying he's annoying or is a brat is glazing over the fact as to all the reasons why, but yes it is frustrating. No one said he was good, but why would he be if being hurtful was how he learned to protect himself?? Hence him acting like the aunt.

What I think is interesting is expecting a teenager to fully understand his trauma and react appropriately when he still has a self deprecating ideals and believes he cannot be vulnerable! So I guess we should have that expectation that abuse victims should know better and not be reactive regardless of whatever the hell they're feeling or thinking! ESP because teenagers can work through complicated emotional ties and still be nice and polite!

yeah a lot of y'all delayed asf

I had a cousin who did this, she had a step dad and felt like she wasn't receiving enough attention so she went and lied to our grandma that he'd been sexually abusing her. She got taken away from the CPS for several months till she came out saying she lied. She was returned but the whole family just inst the same.

Literally had a family member lie about sexual abuse get taken away by CPS. Stfu he's a POS

So how in the hell does that have any relation to what he's been through?? those are two VASTLY different scenarios this is such a crazy ass reach and shit analysis

go ahead and reread ur reply and then the brothers back story and explain how ANY of that is related or even somewhat similar, the sky gotta be the limit with this crazy ass reach of a comparison

You need therapy

I feel bad about your future patients, instead of helping them you'll just egg them on

The fact you don't see how a you child falsely accusing someone of abuse isn't the same as a slightly older child accusing another of abuse is INSANE work. Is your school online perhaps? Might want to get a refund cause it's a scam.

LMAOOO I still stick by my original comment, go ahead and move onto slice of life gng this shit FLIES over your head. I have no idea what you're trying to express because NONE of your comments have any clear point, explanation, or analysis to add or even REBUTTAL what I've stated besides "he sucks and you're stupid!!" I'm fr going in circles, esp with ppl like you since I'm obviously arguing with a child, since no way this could be considered a debate.

Now to your actual comment, so in this statement, you think that for example a seven year-old has the same understanding of societal norms and behaviours compared to someone entering their fresh possible min teens?? ESPECIALLY when they've obviously experienced a traumatic event at different developing stages?? Clearly since you assume from ages 5-15 is only a *slight* difference in comparison to someone who's 27-30. I guess you don't understand why elementary students have different reading levels per grade level, compared to expecting someone who's 27-30 to comprehend hr policies.

You're ig the target audience, cause you're obviously slow if shit gotta be repeated to you and your only rebuttal is "Well he sucks cause he should know better! He's grown enough!!" I've already explained why he's so reactive and acts the way he does, and cant do anything if you got tunnel vision. And based off of your comments and thinking process ima just assume you're a kid, so go ahead and get back to your books

well I ain't your therapist or responsible for your feelings, if you can't understand what some rando on the internet is explaining and get pissed cause your feelings get hurt since I very apparently touched a nerve maybe that's saying something