Have you all read ahead?

Emichan September 3, 2025 12:43 pm

Okay, i rarely comment, but unless you all read ahead I don't understand all the hatred towards the old man.

All we know is that he used to be Haebeom's mother's BF. And everyone just immediately assume he just left her while she was pregnant? What? Like do you just want him to be the bad guy? Like what if they broke up and he went back to his native country and lost contact, since no phones or social media back in those days, and she then found out she was pregnant? Like no one giving him the benefit of the doubt that he might not have known about Haebom.

Only thing that I don't like is that he doesn't respect MLs boundaries, now that he told him off. But just immediately throwing out the "deadbeat dad" accusations, when we have so little info is wild. So yeah unless you all know something I dont, i feel you all being a bit harsh.

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    2 kawaii 4 da opps :3 September 3, 2025 12:59 pm

    Literally what I thought when I saw the hate comments abt this dude

    Bofa September 3, 2025 2:32 pm

    Lit maybe he didn’t even know that his wife was pregnant just like the situation the mc is having..except the wife didn’t leave the child to him out of the blue

    Bird-chan September 3, 2025 3:21 pm

    True, but then again... he knew about her passing away. Did his father not allow him to return? Does he have a wife and other children? Did he hire a private investigator to know about his gf and son? What does he think when he sees his son interact with the village folks

    Kat_05 September 4, 2025 8:05 pm

    I'm not upset by an assumption he left when she was pregnant, im upset by the fact he hasnt been there for his entire childhood, which is valid lol imo regardless of the reason or whether he knew or not he hasnt been there and so, just as the dad clearly understands since he never pushed back on haebom saying he couldn't be expected to js turn up after all these years and he'd want to talk to him, the hurt he would feel caused by that objective fact is valid and a valid reason to be upset with him, ofc feelings can change over time and with new information brought but this is what were going off of in a manga where were given days to ruminate between each update when its only been hours for the actual characters meant to be experiencing these things. Its just whether you wanna give him the benefit of the doubt bc either way you have to make assumptions to his benefit or detriment atm as to whether he knew she had a kid in all that time so I think that hating on him at this moment in time should be ok until evidence to the contrary