
He married my mother but he never wanted to be a father. He never told her that so by the time I was born, I'm the sencond and last child, they just drifted apart and he just disappeared from our lifes, but never divorced. When my mom died many years later, some relatives got in contact with him on facebook and he went to the funeral. He tried to explain us his pov and how he felt about not wanting to have kids but that he loved our mother and gave in, but he was already a stranger. He gave up his rights to the inheritance my mother left as some kind of peace sign but we didn't care because we found that he had another family, not an official one, before he met and married my mother. And he had 3 children already and he didn't want more. My mom never knew.
To this day he still tries to have some relationship with us even after the true came out. I think is because he's old and afraid to be alone lol
Daddy's lonely but still not the right time. Haebeom I get you. My father did the same and it's a funny feeling when they come back and wants to have some kind of relationship. I hope the dad have a really good reason and maybe someday he can present himself as Haebeom's father not only the mother's boyfriend.