Also dont over pinch places, that leads to a lot of different things.
And dont leave hickeys so close to major blood vessels, like around your neck
I love your little safe sex lecture, makes me feel looked out for. Thnx
ill just add that if u wanna do bondage/shibari make sure to do it safe and know the places you can't put too much pressure on or for long, like joints and specific nerves. talk to your partner to make sure they're not losing feeling anywhere. idk i just felt like adding even tho all the bondage in this is magical
And never forget to agree on a safe word, gesture or knocking pattern, in case of using a gag
Oh and DENTAL DAMS! Gotta be safe with oral too!
Of course! Fiction tends to blur the lines on this and it misleads a lot of people. And some people just dont have anyone that they feel safe talking about this stuff, so I just like to give a little safety talk.
I personally was one of them and I had no fucking clue about anything besides a condom and it just made a vunerable experience much scarier than it had to be, and I wanna spare people of that.
also this is very important!
DO NOT JUST SHOVE IT IT
IT NEVER WORKS LIKE THAT
AND IT ISN'T A 2 SECOND PROCESS EITHER
LIKE LUBE AND PREP ARE YOUR FRIENDS, THERE TO SUPPORT YOU!
and if anyone ever cross any of the boundaries or steps, drop their ass right then and there! No second chances, if you talked about it then they purposely crossed the boundary with no regard for your safety and therefore not worth your time!
*im not saying glitter their car... but....maybe some arts and crafts will make the boundaries stick*
damn i wish i had glittered my ex's car but her broke ass couldn't even get one
I just wanna say thank yall for this info cause… damn.
who said gooning can't be educational, am i right
Literally a trip to the er
Actually, on that note of not putting things in you,
Don't put ice either unless you wanna play Russian roulette with frostbite/that melts down to a jagged shape n stabs or a yeast infection, mess up ur ph levels and all that shit.
So like yeah.
Just be smart about sexual health or whatever.
Do your research, talk to your partner about boundaries, wear condoms no matter the relationship status or gender, dont put sharp things in soft places