
You’re mad because they’re speaking the truth? Also just because a person reads yaoi it doesn’t automatically make them a fetishist be for real.. so far this story is buns but if you enjoy it, hey, you do you. I’m not gonna shame you for reading what you want and enjoy, but you also shouldn’t go around shaming others because they don’t like it.

I’m sorry but who said I disagreed? I do think it’s weird but I’m just saying she has no room to talk. Especially cause I know they be pressing the “BDSM” tab REAL quick when it comes to there daily Yaoi goon sessions. Trust me what this person is doing is self deflecting, trying to find a way to make them feel better about themselves by bringing other problems to light.

Your entire previous comment shouted “I disagree!” but if thats not the case then, im sorry. Also how do you know what they’re doing or not? Isn’t all of that just assuming? Literally anyone who can think straight would say the same thing as them, maybe the asexual part not but it still doesn’t prove anything.

I'm not mad. Especially because your profiling was really clumsy and untrue. I expected someone would fly into a rage because people don't like real talk during their goon time. However, I've been reading yaoi for decades, and I will critique it for as long as I enjoy the limitless sub-genres of gay literature, including/unrelated smut. I mentioned exploring asexual relationships for that very reason. Unfortunately, I could not "goon" to this because realistic abuse is not sexy (to me). But I do not degrade those who do read it, as you do. You said I'm on a pedestal, as you typed how much you look down on me for having an opinion, assumed I was fetishizing, and implied it would be bad if I even did goon. Which it would not. You insulted the readers and incriminated yourself.
It is 2025, and we're still only having straight-up criminals do "BDSM". I hate to say it since yaoi is love, yaoi is life. But (korean) Yaoi really needs to catch up with the straights in Japanese literature (and prob lesbians/bi too) when it comes to serious BDSM with storytelling and deep dives on the psyche. Bro, I would even LOVE to see an asexual gay man blasting off into BDSM to satisfy him and his partners' different needs. But this is giving "fan fiction", "I've only heard about it", "love the aesthetic" kinda vibe. We are so much better than this. The uke is literally just a victim getting tormented by a sadistic no-good thug. We know full well if he were beating a woman's ass like that, we would be up in arms. And don't pull up looking a fool saying, "well, I don't mind if this huge man beats on a woman, it's sexy." It is not unique. It's just violence, and it's getting old. I'm not here to smut shame, but the MC and ML feel so well modeled after real life and abusive dynamics, I wish the author could have pushed real boundaries past troupes