you took the words straight outta my mouth. realistically their relationship is either going to blow up in a few years or rot jeongyun slowly over the years becoming something he would only be capable of processing when chaehon is likely dead. its all fun and games because the story ends here when all of the most significant and burdensome aspects of chaehon’s obsession are still viewed under the delusion of rose coloured glasses.
I stopped reading it bc it pussed me off when he told the friend not to let jeongyun know I was like huh??? EVERYONE TIPTOEING AROUND HIM BECAUSE THEY DON'T WANT TO HURT HIM??? Like what? How is ya'll knowing he's gay and accepting it gonna hurt him in any way??? Like every single person in his life treats him like he's still a child & that pissed me off so much I decided I wasn't gonna finish it but I got curious on how it ends & came to the comments.
I lived this life with my husband for 20 years before I left him. It was the worst nightmare you can imagine. However, I love stories like this because it’s fiction. I love it because I know they’re going to be happy together forever.
One day they’ll sit down and discuss their issues and Jeongyun will hear about Chaeheon’s parents and his mother’s cruelty to him. He’ll understand where Chaeheon’s obsession and insecurity stems from and help him process it so he can heal.
I know one day Jeongyun will have it out with his family and lover over them knowing all along. He’ll be angry and hurt but eventually there will come forgiveness in the face of their genuine repentance.
I know that one day they’ll have a child who will be showered with love and never be abused or afraid. A child who won’t, one day, be clutching his battered parent’s hand as they run for their lives.
I know these things because the author is the god of their world and will make the unrealistic real and they’ll grow old together living happily ever after.
I understand the difference between fiction and reality quite well and I read these types of stories because for a little while I get to pretend that this will all work out and there is genuine and deep love behind every choice made instead of cruelty and sociopathy.
That may not be the case for everyone who hasn’t experienced what I have and I get that, but it’s what makes me love toxic crazy stories like this lolol
Sure. This comment isn't about you. It's not a "maybe" that other readers don't understand what I pointed out. It is expressed all over this comment section and has been since the story began. I made this comment in direct response to another reader who described it as "not a toxic story". During the last chapter update I responded to someone else who basically stated "it's not bad like Jinx" without understanding how the two are connected. And all of this exists in societies designed to cultivate not only a lack of recognition but no support even when recognition occurs. So lolol maybe you have more to understand about the complicated realities these fictional stories we all enjoy exist in if the best you can offer is a "maybe that's so but I'm good".
Yeah! TBH, I enjoy an obsessive, over the top ML, it's my not so secret vice . I just get concerned when some readers don't recognise that ML like this is also a screaming red flag who is easier to romanticise because he isn't like the ones in Jinx for example. Some webtoon creators are so so good at depicting these fake nice abuser types it's eerie (and makes me think it might be from experience sometimes.)
I had no idea you were responding to a specific comment. I was just making a comment about how I view it. I didn’t think this comment was about me. I didn’t insult you or invalidate your opinion. I didn’t say that you have more to understand about the realities portrayed in these stories. I didn’t say that the story isn’t toxic or that people won’t end up viewing this as acceptable irl. I agree with you. I read those comments too. That’s not a healthy viewpoint and is damaging. I wasn’t defending it, I was just offering my personal perspective on why I can still enjoy these types of toxic stories as someone who has experienced that type of situation.
Thanks for sharing
Well, this fake green flag story is over. It's diabolical the way webtoon creators can write textbook abuser ML characters but get everything about how that behaviour would affect the MC wildly wrong: all hearts and flowers and "He just loves me that much".
Like this last chapter ends with EVERYONE still lying to Jeongyun about his family knowing about his sexual orientation and relationship and it is presented as something sweet and blissful. Family acceptance is something on his mind and he gets no reassurance about it. Instead, what we get is a scene in which Jeongyun's misunderstanding is linked to him not comprehending the depths of Chaehon's love and he thinks it is something to apologise for. What could be wrong about this?
We just came out of a storyline in which Chaehon intentionally hid major information about who he was from Jeongyun. Because he didn't have that knowledge Jeongyun reasonably became anxious about his boyfriend's behaviour with someone else. He admitted to himself that his anxiety was blowing things up in his mind but he had observed enough to ask for an explanation. He is genuinely distressed and hurt, his feelings are valid, and what does Chaehon do when Jeongyun builds up the courage to ask what's going on in the privacy of their home? Laugh in his face then fuck him. And, AS USUAL, Jeongyun is written to like it so readers can go, "Aww they just match each others' freak."
BUT when Jeongyun sent a light hearted text about a possible life without him Chaehon loses it. He: 1) demands Jeongyun leave his work to address it. Violation of work/personal life boundaries. If Jeongyun's boss wasn't cool she could have made it a problem for him. 2) angrily confronts Jeongyun in a semi-public venue to heighten his anxiety and potential embarrassment. 3) threatens physical violence over the idea that Jeongyun could leave him. It ends with Jeongyun laughing in his face—no it ends with him feeling responsible for Chaehon's response, apologising and promising himself to be a better boyfriend to protect Chaehon's peace of mind.
THIS IS A TEXTBOOK TOXIC, ABUSIVE SITUATION. Humans are weird we enjoy a lot of weird shit, I read this story to the end right along with you (although I enjoyed this one less and less and only stuck around for our sweet redhead.) I need us to be able to recognise what we are reading. Chaehon's explosive temper, unpredictable moods, controlling behaviour, the management of his life "for his own good" as "love" in contrast to Jeongyun positioned as being stupid/oblivious for not seeing the truth around him, ready to take on anything as his fault is classic abuser validating rhetoric.