guys a sub man who looks similar to richard and is like 188cm tall, wants me to be his dom

jellyfish September 11, 2025 10:50 pm

guys a sub man who looks similar to richard and is like 188cm tall, wants me to be his dom

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    Kittyslyfox September 13, 2025 4:02 am
    thank you so much <3you've helped me so much. I told him that I don't think it's gonna work out and blocked him.I considered sending him a thread of what a sub-frenzy is bc I thought he'd actually need it, b... jellyfish

    You’re welcome glad I was able to help save you some headaches . Best method will be my instagram to contact me I hope you have a lovely weekend as well

    beetea September 13, 2025 1:46 pm
    You’re welcome to pm me on instagram as well if you have any questions. It depends but either way don’t get into the lifestyle until you’re 18 at the minimum. There generally are a few ways one is Fet but... Kittyslyfox

    Seconding and sharing my own experience. Ngl I lucked out, I ended up in a relationship at like 17 (my first Real relationship), we lost our virginity together, got into a stable place, and then we started w BDSM after I brought it up a few times kinda like 6mo in. We been together 5 years now, I'm 22. He wasn't down for everything at first and there are some things he's just NOT down for that I respect (and vice versa!) and we're still working our way to some stuff but it's nice to grow and learn together. It's something I feel like if you're not 100% w it or if you're young or just starting out it can be really nice to start within the confines of a healthy relationship. Lots of trust building. I think a lot of people see BDSM as a whole as smn u do w strangers and shit or like with several partners yk bc it's like "taboo" -- which if ur into that thats chill ofc -- but i love the way i got into this community. You can be in a committed monogamous relationship w someone u trust and do this shit. And u dont have to start swingin out the gates. And I would even argue FOR being in a trustworthy stable partnership when u do this bc it requires so much exploration and communication that u wont always get from strangers yk. Esp if you're new-ish. And esp if you're, like, topping. I found topping, as a woman, scary as fuck! I was like. Not confident and shit. Even tho it was me who wanted it yk. So I'm glad I was in a relationship when I started bc that let me build my confidence without worrying abt fucking up. And there are lots of diff things u can do and ways you can indulge that arent always represented mainstream. And that r fun to explore together. Hope you find what ur looking for & dont rush into it! Shit's worth taking time for :) Best of luck babes!

    Babushka_80 September 13, 2025 11:51 pm
    You’re welcome to pm me on instagram as well if you have any questions. It depends but either way don’t get into the lifestyle until you’re 18 at the minimum. There generally are a few ways one is Fet but... Kittyslyfox

    Dw Im 22 and know ever single one of my kinks I just dont know how to find they guy

    buhbeet September 14, 2025 12:51 am
    Dw Im 22 and know ever single one of my kinks I just dont know how to find they guy Babushka_80

    then godspeed bredda

    Babushka_80 September 14, 2025 8:31 am
    You’re welcome to pm me on instagram as well if you have any questions. It depends but either way don’t get into the lifestyle until you’re 18 at the minimum. There generally are a few ways one is Fet but... Kittyslyfox

    Nah Im definitely not underage and know my kinks I just cant find any guys