But you are ignoring something very important. Who Jo is and who TJ is. Thats so unfair. ...

Justme September 13, 2025 1:06 pm

But you are ignoring something very important.
Who Jo is and who TJ is. Thats so unfair. If Jo was in TJ position, would u say the same?

Jo- lived a normal life and can quite easily give Ian that. Has a normal job , a loving family. He can give him “everything” cause he can.

TJ-orphan who had to survive all his life, endure abuse and neglect . Plus he is a thug. He isnt pretending too. He has done everything to have some power.

I feel like u cant understand how someone who has been used all his life can cope. “ this gang life” and that has been his whole life.
To throw it away for someone who might go back to his second choice the next minute

Responses
    Morii September 14, 2025 10:57 pm
    A person riding hard with ignorant rhetoric and disregard of abusive dynamics so that she can defend this oh-so misunderstood man will most likely not be met with nice replies, right? People can admit to liking... WOW

    Preach. I know nobody wants a man that ruins their career, expects you to oblige and just wants you to put up with them, and wait for them 20+ years while also putting their own lives at risk. TJ is the definition and epitome of selfishness.

    Morii September 14, 2025 10:58 pm
    She was defending an abuser and blaming the victim YOUAREASTUPIDHOE

    That person said let’s Stan TJ together. I think that’s what they meant, like why the hate towards TJ…let’s be for real, y’all got eyes.

    Morii September 14, 2025 10:58 pm
    She was defending an abuser and blaming the victim YOUAREASTUPIDHOE

    Oh and they said that in another comment.

    YOUAREASTUPIDHOE September 14, 2025 11:18 pm
    Oh and they said that in another comment. Morii

    ppl who stans tj don't have any common sense I fear :( anyway I'll keep hating bc I'm a hater

    YOUAREASTUPIDHOE September 14, 2025 11:20 pm
    That person said let’s Stan TJ together. I think that’s what they meant, like why the hate towards TJ…let’s be for real, y’all got eyes. Morii

    Hoes keep acting like he’s a saint. I swear, they must be reading this story with something other than their brain.

    Reh September 14, 2025 11:32 pm
    Meant to reply to you WOW

    Let’s agree that there’s a big difference in how people understand this story… no need to be so hateful in the comments

    WOW September 14, 2025 11:39 pm
    Let’s agree that there’s a big difference in how people understand this story… no need to be so hateful in the comments Reh

    You can have subjective opinions but should also be aware that they aren’t the objective truth and fight people when they explain stuff to you. I’d ask you to elaborate but I’m afraid any explanation would fall on deaf ears if you’re asking to not react negatively to someone saying borderline absurd shit. Like it or don’t the abuse dynamic is there.

    Reh September 14, 2025 11:41 pm
    That person said let’s Stan TJ together. I think that’s what they meant, like why the hate towards TJ…let’s be for real, y’all got eyes. Morii

    Just ask… misinformation isn’t helpful

    Morii September 14, 2025 11:54 pm
    Just ask… misinformation isn’t helpful Reh

    Well make yourself helpful for the first time in your life and read.

    YOUAREASTUPIDHOE September 15, 2025 12:31 am
    Let’s agree that there’s a big difference in how people understand this story… no need to be so hateful in the comments Reh

    This story isn’t even complex, everything is right in front of your eyes. But if you still choose to side with the abusive party, don’t be surprised when people leave hateful comments. Agreeing with the op and defending tj is being a weirdo. Hope this helps!