What to do?

Mongrel September 14, 2025 12:45 am

See i don't have any interest in love or marriage, but my parents are planning my wedding, if I say that I have no interest they are like you don't know anything and you will need someone by your side one day or it will be too late if you want to in later years... While I completely agree with their concerns, what kind of logic is ' you may regret it later, so do something you don't like now' ╥﹏╥ . So I came to o a decision, that I will do a lavender marriage, I will marry a guy , who also want the same or a gay who wants to hide it ... Sorry wanted to rant somewhere, I am so anxious that I will be married that I cannot sleep

Responses
    Mongrel September 14, 2025 12:48 am

    Why tf did I post it here? , can I delete it?

    teetaetee September 14, 2025 12:50 am

    good luck with that. sounds like a brown family. if ur muslim ill just say- if u dont say kabul the wedding cant happen. try telling tgem that you will marry eventually but not now. u cud rant about this on reddit yk.

    Mongrel September 14, 2025 12:54 am

    Not a muslim, Hindu. Reddit... Let's just say no...

    Mongrel September 14, 2025 12:55 am
    good luck with that. sounds like a brown family. if ur muslim ill just say- if u dont say kabul the wedding cant happen. try telling tgem that you will marry eventually but not now. u cud rant about this on red... teetaetee

    That's the problem, they are telling me I won't get matches if it's too late... Fyi for them 27 is too late okay?

    teetaetee September 15, 2025 9:57 am
    That's the problem, they are telling me I won't get matches if it's too late... Fyi for them 27 is too late okay? Mongrel

    well then a lavender marriage sounds like a good option. ik someone who married an impotent guy at 20 and divorced him at 25. (๑•ㅂ•)و✧ goodluckk. and ofc its always the brown fams forcing early marriaged

    teetaetee September 15, 2025 9:58 am
    Not a muslim, Hindu. Reddit... Let's just say no... Mongrel

    andd whats wrong with reddit? its better than posting it under an yaoi- dont have to post it in r/india u can post it in other servers. i have gotten plenty of good advice on reddig (mostly regarding nail art tho since thats the only sub i follow lol)

    Mongrel September 15, 2025 2:01 pm
    andd whats wrong with reddit? its better than posting it under an yaoi- dont have to post it in r/india u can post it in other servers. i have gotten plenty of good advice on reddig (mostly regarding nail art t... teetaetee

    Yeah advice is good, but those people make everything personal, I mean I don't have good experience with them , btw, I regretted it right after doing, I just fought with my family that time so I did it