What to do?

Mongrel September 14, 2025 12:51 am

See i don't have any interest in love or marriage, but my parents are planning my wedding, if I say that I have no interest they are like you don't know anything and you will need someone by your side one day or it will be too late if you want to in later years... While I completely agree with their concerns, what kind of logic is ' you may regret it later, so do something you don't like now' ╥﹏╥ . So I came to a decision, that I will do a lavender marriage, I will marry a guy , who also want the same or a gay who wants to hide it ... Sorry wanted to rant somewhere, I am so anxious that I will be married that I cannot sleep... Don't you all dare to say I am overreacting

Responses
    seabi September 14, 2025 1:07 am

    queen, don’t let them choose your future for you !!!

    Mongrel September 14, 2025 1:26 am
    queen, don’t let them choose your future for you !!! seabi

    Easy to say hard to do girl ( ̄ε(# ̄)Σ

    zay September 14, 2025 1:33 am

    Im so sorry this is happening to you. Try to reason with your parents tell them you wanna focus on building your life and completing studies. Youll look for a partner when its time. Unless they are brown parents cus i would understand wanting to reason with them is kinda useless. But still do try .. and they legally cant get you married forcefully. Dont go into marriage if you are not sure

    seabi September 14, 2025 1:46 am
    Easy to say hard to do girl ( ̄ε(# ̄)Σ Mongrel

    i knooowwwbut i’m glad you found a solution.. and i hope it’ll works out well for you

    Mongrel September 14, 2025 2:25 am
    Im so sorry this is happening to you. Try to reason with your parents tell them you wanna focus on building your life and completing studies. Youll look for a partner when its time. Unless they are brown parent... zay

    Yeah they are... Why you brown too?

    Mongrel September 14, 2025 2:25 am
    i knooowwwbut i’m glad you found a solution.. and i hope it’ll works out well for you seabi

    Thanks

    Saccharine September 14, 2025 3:14 am

    Same I don’t wanna get married like ever but my mom is like you have to get married one day ╥﹏╥
    Lavender marriage sounds nice but where do you even find a guy like who your parents will also like? This sucks. Anyway all the best. I hope you can do it

    Mongrel September 14, 2025 3:16 am
    Same I don’t wanna get married like ever but my mom is like you have to get married one day ╥﹏╥Lavender marriage sounds nice but where do you even find a guy like who your parents will also like? This ... Saccharine

    That's what!!! What you gonna do? Marry?