I quite literally only read the first line of your comment and was like,"...huh, wtf!! Which brainless mf says that!!"
That's the very definition of 'gaslighting or blaming the victim.'
Im not blaming sejin at all. Please read the entire comment. My comment is in response to some people saying that sejin did ido dirty. Im just stating that when people say sejin has his own flaws (absolutely not warranting his abuse at all), I think they are just human flaws that are tied to his trauma and atleast then it makes it a little less frustrating that he eventually forgives ido in the end.
Sorry my bad
I didnt get what you were saying at first but I dont know how to delete my first reply to you ┗( T﹏T )┛
Some people are saying that sejin is selfish and was horrible to ido. Well, I guess I really like that? Dont get me wrong. I just hate it when the uke is a literal angel (eg kim dan) who has done nothing but good for the seme while the seme out there is a literal demon. And STILL the uke forgives the seme. Sejin having his very own human flaws (due to his own set of trauma ofcourse) kind of makes me feel better cause now they both DO deserve each other. Both fumbled in their own ways, worked through their issues, toiled and got over it. Thats better than the gross difference in morality of main characters.