I don’t disagree a lot and that might be based on what you’ve read but for me it’s about the same, somehow the experienced ones are always the most snobbiest and uuuugh frustrating written characters. Is it hard to write a slut that’s idk, acts like a typical being?
I realize I just don’t like stories where they write characters who are slutty out to be some horn dog animal raging lust at every person they see. It’s not really about top or bottom, it’s just that the tops are almost always the tops with more experience as an asshole and horn doggery. Meanwhile the bottoms are pure virgins who’ve never had sex.
Like sluts can have manners.

It seems like I'm the problem... Why do I despise MLs who sleep with others daily, as if they need it as much as they need air to breathe SO MUCH, while the MC (bottom) is "pure"? And why do people like such stories as much as they do?