And what has Sejin done to atone for everything he did? I hate how selfish he is. He li...

Yeah ido is a bastard, but I hate how everyone is quick to only blame him.I understand why people would sympathize with Sejin..its coz he has suffered for way longer, but despite that, that "long suffering" isn't ido's fault so it's not ok for ppl to enjoy ido's suffering now. It's too much imo. Btw, I think sejin did apologise when ido was confronting him abt it and he got slapped too(deserved), his problem is that though he felt guilty, he was too preoccupied with getting recognition to really see that what he was doing was wronging Ido. A LOT. I think he deserved that ido kicked him out and cut all ties and maybe make his father's family all bankrupt. I wouldn't have shed a year for Sejin n his family financially going down. But he crossed a line when he semi forced him during the bj scene. And then...it was just bad situations..like the funeral...absence of ido due to that...ido not knowing what his bro did n forcing sejin...it was all too much.... it's like comparing a civil court case to a criminal case, yknow? So it's not the same severity but a betrayal is still a betrayal and it would be fair to expect sejin to address his own betrayal too.

l didn't mean to like, I totally disagree （￣へ￣）

Two wrongs just make two wrongs. Ido's wrongs don't make Sejin's disappear.

Why? I genuinely don't understand how you could disagree.

Sejin has consistently been selfish and evil. He's never once done anything for anyone else. Everything he's done has selfish motives. He's never apologized or tried to right any of the many many wrongs he's done.

Even killing himself was just another shitty selfish way to avoid responsibility.

Ido is a shitty person but at least he's tried to make things right. He's at least grown as a person. Sejin is the same spoiled rich kid he's always been.

I think youre missing Sejin’s past here. He was a child raised with no ounce of affection from birth. You’re overlooking the fact that He was raised to be tool for his father’s company benefit. HE GREW UP TO BELIEVE THAT WAS HIS PURPOSE. To call him evil is just insensitive. The fact that he even has the ability to CHOSE HIMSELF is already a miracle given how he was practically used and had no support his whole life. Yes, he’s frustrating but is it his fault? Ido couldn’t even help him properly because he was shit too. Only then did the second life time Ido realized he was wrong and tried to atone. But Sejin didn’t have a choice be it may the first or second, he was still tied to his woven purpose because he doesn’t remember anything!

Ido has all the power and information to know Sejin's situation. Yet why the need the need to test him, taunt him, bait him and end up doubling down the abuse from his family and then him? Ido did not put a clear effort to make Sejin feel safe - to feel so victimized when Sejin stole the document/info.

Sejin apologized, btw. Remember he was throat raped? He knelt to apologize but Ido shoved his dick down his throat.

While he didn’t particularly apologize or took responsibility even tho Ido gave him the chance he got punished very hard, both by ido himself and by the whole getting raped situation. That’s why it’s a lot easier to sympathize with him.
He was also a victim of his environment, Sejin was never completely malicious, just ignorant and selfish at most, while Ido hurt him willingly, which he’s now paying for. You could argue Ido was a fantastic partner this life, but that’s built over him killing Sejin last time.

You're making all this up. That's not at all true. Sejin always had a choice. Even in his own head he knew he had a choice... And he always chose the option he thought would benefit him the most.

He debated stealing before he did it and he decided he'd gain more from his father than Ido. He debated telling Ido about the theft and decided he'd gain more by not telling (because it'd extend his relationship). He even hid his disability which caused so many problems because he thought he'd gain more by hiding it (because it'd extend his relationship).

At no point does he do anything, literally anything, that would benefit or help Ido in any way in either life. At no point does he apologize. He's evil because he doesn't care about his much his actions hurt other people, he only cares about how much he's hurt.

He suffers from the consequences of his bad decisions but that's not the same thing as apologizing or atonement. That's why these wife chasing manhwas always suck. Being sad or suffering isn't an apology. It doesn't make anything right. It doesn't show you've changed. It doesn't even show you understand what you did wrong.

calling victim of abuse who has been conditioned all his life "evil" and has something to atone for himself towards his past rapist is something else..

Why do people want a perfect victim. Ido is a rapist

ARE WE READING THE SAME STORY HERE WHAT THE FREAK???? The fact you’re blaming A VICTIM OF ABUSE is crazy. Truly shows that you have no emotional intelligence nor empathy for people like that. Sejin didn’t even deliver the document to his father and got slapped because he didn’t want to betray ido?? The fuxk you on bruh in the first place, IDO PUT HIM IN THAT POSITION. Knowing damn well, Sejin is mentally torn apart by his upbringing and shit family. You thinking Sejin is some useless person say, “evil” is so downright stupid and insensitive of you

You have a point. Though I don't think Sejin is malicious but yes, he's selfish. He's never really done anything for Ido.....even 1/10th of what he's ready to do for his "family". Ido had been harsh in words but when it really counted, he was the one who saved Sejin's ass from that embezzlement case etc. He also comforted n treated him fairly well. Actually during the time he stole the doc it was still pretty early so n they weren't close (still wrong tho) but his biggest wrongdoing was not telling Ido about it. This is what Ido said too....that it could've been not this worse had he known about it. To think Sejin didn't care enough about Ido to tell him about it even after his bishass family practically abandoned him is... frustrating n the most disappointing thing from Ido's perspective. Conclusion, Sejin is cowardly, passive and selfish due to many reasons and even his love for Ido couldn't overcome those tendencies. He was just waiting for the truth to come out on it's own then he apologized n kneeled but it was too late imo. But then the way Ido punished him wasn't ok too. Like u said 2 wrongs r 2 wrongs. Also, I think it's wrong to say Ido killed him. No he didn't. It's true that he couldn't save him n couldn't care about him like he should after forcefully marking him, which was wrong of Ido. The breaking point was Sejin thinking he was handed over by Ido and that he probably has the rapist's child.

all this "sejin is a selfish passive bastard too for going against his contract husband, since he dared to get manipulated by his abusive father and not being a perfect victim in all of this we can all forget that ido once saw him getting violently raped and responded to it by raping him further."

maybe people were only skipping the story for them to think sejin was embezzling for shit and giggles

Literally like bro I i dont understand how sejin has any wrong in the story? He was but a victim!

I WAS CONFUSED TOO. SEJIN has absolutely nothing for himself at this point but despite that he was still taken advantage of, i seriously don’t get it

I never once said we can forget what Ido did. Never called Sejin names. And it's true, he IS selfish and passive - FOR MANY REASONS, as i said. Also, forget about being a perfect victim coz even if he wasn't passive or hesitant by nature, he still as a human is bound to have flaws. I'm just saying that instead of putting everything on Ido and giving Sejin a clean chit because he's a victim, one can just point out what each on of them did. I already said that one is a civil level offence while the other is a criminal one(i.e. rape n forceful marking). I never put Ido above Sejin after he raped n marked him after he forced himself on him but before that he was a fairly ok person. It's not his fault that Sejin happens to have a shitty adoptive family. Does he deserve to get his hard work stolen by others because Sejin was abused all his life? Why should he take responsibility for Sejin when Sejin works for his father n also puts Sejin in Jail (only for Ido to save him actually) ? Don't put words into people's mouth and get ahead of yourself. You probably just don't want people mentioning anything good Ido did or how he was wronged before he became Sejin's perpetrator...and you want to forget everything Sejin did before he became Ido's victim. But some people care about that coz these two are the main. Anyway it's just a story.

BEING ABUSED DOESN'T SUDDENLY MAKE YOU INCAPABLE OF DOING ANYTHING WRONG. I can use caps lock too.

Besides, his family was barely abusive. 30 years ago literally every parent yelled at and hit their kid. 60 years ago it was even worse for kids. 100 years ago they put kids in the mines. That doesn't mean abuse is okay or justified in any way, but having a parent that screams at you doesn't make you a sneaky little thief who is incapable of admitting they've done wrong.

Even now literally millions of children are abused and 99% grow up to be normal people who make good choices and treat others well. Abuse isn't this magic get out of jail free card and you're a dumbass for thinking it is.

Sejin just is a sneaky thief narcissist who blames everyone else for his choices and refuses to take responsibility. There's no excuse for it.

Also was it ever made clear that Ido knew that Sejin got raped by his brother? Coz Ido deemed to have taken what Sejin said out of spite seriously and maybe he thought Sejin did sleep with his brother willingly, that's why he mentioned that "we're still legally married" etc, as if to remind him he can't sleep with others.But that's weird because there's a slap mark on Sejin's cheek. Also Sejin has a misunderstanding that Ido let him get raped. Ido never saw him getting raped if I remember correctly.

SEJIN IS A RICH MAN WITH A WEALTH OF RESOURCES HE COULD USE TO MAKE BETTER CHOICES BUT HE DIDN'T WANT TO STOP BEING A MILLIONAIRE AND JUST LIVE LIKE A REGULAR WORKING CLASS PERSON. I can use caps lock too, lol.

Y'all need to stop making all this shit up, lol.

Sejin was the executive manager/director of his company for a decade and he never had to spend any money on his living expenses so he was able to save all of his salary. He went to the best schools money could buy without paying out of pocket.

Sejin has always had SO MUCH and yet choose to be a thief anyways because he wanted more. He could have walked away from all of it and just gotten a regular job and lived like a regular guy, but he didn't want to. He even could have lived on his savings. He wanted to stay an elite and every decision he made was to further that goal.

You're making up so much about this rich middle aged man to make him nothing but a victim and completely ignoring his actual circumstances.