Tale as old as time. Victim mentality is an illness. And projection truly ruins so many things. They’re always defending the bottoms bc they self insert in the bottom’s role. That’s why, the one getting penetrated will always be the victim in their eyes bc they don’t see the bottoms as a male character in a fictional story, they see them as a reflection of themselves. Mental illness I’m telling you.
been feeling this way for years. I have no idea there's people out there who realised this too... so many people tend to eat up the narration instead, like water in the desert I tell you. But yeah, it's very clearly projection and a developing narcissistic disorder.
You've restored my hope in humanity quite a bit.

I'm just saying, if it was the uke who had this tragic abused sob story; he'd be traumatized by everything as an adult and need saving and will also be oh so soft hearted.
Since it's the seme-- his tragic abused sob story means he grows up to be a rapist and murderer. korean bl authors are so predictable.