thank you for leaving this comment because i felt a sense of relatability in it ╰(*´︶`*)╯♡ im only reaching my 20s soon and thought i was running out of time to find a relationship as i am also a bit cold and have trust issues, but your comment reassured me that not only do i have time, but being single isn’t such a bad thing as well so thank you
It's okay you have all the time in the world to do whatever you want ヾ(❀╹◡╹)ﾉ~ I must say I don't look too different as to when I was 20 so don't be afraid, being 20 or 30 doesn't feel too different except you get tired a little more easily. I don't think I'll have trouble finding a partner either is just... I have really unreachable standards. But not finding one is good anyway you have money to buy the things you want, like books or manhwas or games whatever makes you happy, happiness doesn't come from other people it starts with you. That thing about finding a husband having a child buying a home before turning 30 isn't something you NEED to do, now you have options and if someone judges you for that that's their problem so don't be too harsh on yourself, you're too young to stress over things like that. My aut is 45 she doesn't have a partner neither kids but she's happy and has a huuuuge collection of manga and anime.
Avoidant attachment :( i can understand his behavior I'm not saying it's ok to be like that but it hit so close, that's why I'm single since like 7 years or so. Well is also because i can't feel shit for anyone now but it used to be really bad and i ended in some troublesome relationships. I turned 30 this year and since I've been single I'm so much happier. Still sometimes when I read cute stories I want to experience a healthy relationship but is so hard to find a good person nowadays. I'm a hopeless romantic but I'm also really cold and can't trust anyone. I just trust my cat ╮(￣▽￣)╭