I would be talking to that roommate real fast cause what are they running their mouths for hope you’re doing well and find a solution or peace of the situation
Emm hello, idk if this helps but, if ur gf said all that shit, the spark is gone dude (idk if ur a guy or a girl or a squirrel but I use dude on anyone)and that was toxic and I think ur better off without gf her, ik it could be hard to get over someone but you try nonetheless, if you guys get back together it'll be more toxic sooo please don't go back to someone who (allegedly) accused you of using them and that y'all not spending time much together, to me that's an excuse to get the fuck out of this ship, sooo good luck dude, I'm sorry if this doesn't help, have a great day!
If your girlfriend accused you of only using her and doesn’t believe after you try to explain that it’s not true, she’s not the one. She should’ve heard you out and found proper evidence or something, she doesn’t trust you and trust is essential in a relationship. I hope you find someone that deserves you. For now, I’d advise taking it easy and focusing on the things that make you happy <:
no literally though, that was so out of line for them to do that. also, if you think it’s possible after you talk to ur roommate, try to talk to ur ex gf abt it and try to clarify any misunderstandings/miscommunication because clearly you care about her a lot if you’re asking for advice on what to do. maybe writing out what you want to say bcuz it may help you know what to say/think more clearly on your words, bcuz in moments like these people tend to get really emotional and don’t say/remember all of what they originally wanted to (speaking from experience).
i hope things work out between you too, and again definitely confront ur roomie abt that.
i feel like that def could’ve been the case, but who knows? maybe the gf had past experiences where people used her for her money and what the roommate said made those memories resurface = making her become more paranoid and defensive abt the situation. i think it may just be important to try to communicate more on it if there’s still any chance to do so.
I just don’t know what to do and I’m so desperate that I needed to get it out of my chest, I don’t even know what to feel it just feels so unreal, like she would text any minute and apologize
I have never talked bad about our relationship or gave the vibe that I was munching on her I just don’t know how she came to those words
She just sent me a pic of her drinking, what should I do, can I even say something after she broke up with me via chat
she broke up with you by texting??? oh babes that’s not a good thing to do, that lowkey can tell you a lot if she can’t even do it in person. how long have you been with her for?
also, it’s weird and lowkey off putting of her to send u a pic of her drinking after she broke up with you. how do you take that/what are your thoughts behind that?
Idk what to do anymore we’ve been dating for not long and I don’t know how to feel anymore
I had the same experience with my current boyfriend, I didn't trust him I accused him of cheating, I tried to break up with him and everything, but he loved me so much that I'm changing for him for the best, if this person is trying to love you and u keep on rejecting it you can't be in a relationship in the first place, that's my opinion and btw it took me three months to actually trust him, idk how long these were dating but ig give it time
Respectfully you have to have a talk with your roommate because that’s just rude, and uncalled for. Like there’s no reason why you’re sitting with my girlfriend spilling lies, acting as if you have any right to nip pick my girlfriend’s success. They sound salty and jealous.
I know you must be in a lot of pain, but if she came at you like that she’s lacking respect for you to begin with, which that is a bigger problem than the whole you don’t trust me talk that your probably are having, or might have.
It seems that she’s projecting some resentment or little secret emotions over there, which wtf buddy. The whole point of being in a relationship is to be honest and COMMUNICATE.
No one should make you feel like something that you’re not.
I really hope that you make the right decision for you and your heart. DO NOT LET ANYONE MAKE YOU FEEL CORNERED EVER
My girlfriend just broke up with me. We were having a conflict about not having enough time together and it just grew bigger till the point were she kind of accused of using her just for money and stuff. Apparently my roommate was praising her money and car, then she asked me what I’ve been talking to her to think that way, I didn’t say anything to my roommate. It hurt me so much that she even had the thought that I was using her and it just escalated and got to the point were she broke up with me saying she was giving me so much what more do I want and stuff.
The reason I’m posting this here is because I don’t have the right friends where I can share my situation and it’s so frustrating I just need someone to talk with.