He's just overthinking and not talk with her. That's the problem.

He's overthinking things he READ IN HER MIND and only snippets

There's no way she could guess correctly what exactly he's overthinking.

And somehow, he makes it like this is the most obvious and logical thing in the world, while he should know that he manipulated events until they ended up married.

Like, way to go Mister, do be mortally wounded by her way of thinking when you put everything on the wrong foot in the first place.

This bunny played himself in 3-D-Chess and dares to collapse in heap of hurt feelings like a one-man-epic-drama.