I mean- whys is this such a big deal

Purky September 24, 2025 6:38 pm

I want them to switch cuz i fw short tops and switch couples, and bcuz i never got how topping and bottoming in the bl genre being set in stone never changing law
Its always been very odd to me
Like the average gay couple switches atleast once in their relationship even if they have a preferred sex-pos

Responses
    Yumisery September 25, 2025 11:06 am

    it’s not a law but there are stories specifically for tht.Yall want every story to be the same but everybody likes different things that’s why there are stories with different relationship dynamics.If you would like to read a yaoi/bl that envoles switching there are tags for that and plenty of stories.Im not trying to hate or be mean btw im just sayin people have preferences thats why there’s so many different halos with different sexual plots etc this just might not be for you

    Purky September 25, 2025 4:19 pm
    it’s not a law but there are stories specifically for tht.Yall want every story to be the same but everybody likes different things that’s why there are stories with different relationship dynamics.If you w... Yumisery

    "want everything to be the same"
    The bl genre has mostly heteronormative set in stone sex positions
    Ppl who want something different (switching) don't want the "same thing" since switching isn't even popular to begin with
    And no, there aren't plenty of stories like this.
    At the end of the day this shouldn't at all matter since it's smut and sex positions don't change someone's role in a relationship its just fictional characters having fun and ppl are allowed to comment on a piece of media.

    Yumisery September 26, 2025 12:25 am
    "want everything to be the same"The bl genre has mostly heteronormative set in stone sex positions Ppl who want something different (switching) don't want the "same thing" since switching isn't even popular to ... Purky

    the point is there are stories on here made specifically for you so it’s annoying when people are enjoying a manga and people are in the comments complaining about a story the author wanted mind you.Like all i’m saying is the complaining is so unnecessary and all that energy could go into finding list,recs,etc for switch yaois