childish bottom (yaoi)

raine September 25, 2025 9:35 pm

this lowkey might be an unpopular opinion but i fucking cannot stand in yaois where they make the bottom just clueless, babyish, and just a whiner. like i understand being emotional & a lot of times people can be clueless in certain situations, but why tf is this mf crying every chapter, whining over everything, being childish and really acting like a little girl i never understand that shit man.

Responses
    Pretty corpse September 25, 2025 9:52 pm

    gives me pedo vibes when ts happens n I js drop the shit the second I see em acting liket ts I feel u

    Soul September 25, 2025 9:53 pm

    Lwk real, which is why one of my favs r codename

    Qwertyer September 25, 2025 10:35 pm

    If I was in some of these ukes lives i would be whining all the time too.

    Inherited almost infinited debt, death parents/guardians, kidnaping, abuse, attempted rape, crazy exes, raped by their "seme", abuse, completely obsessive and also detashed boyfriends + all the shit that comes with being an Omega.

    Lest be a little more empathetic, some of them are doing well with all the trauma they have to go through every day

    Selkie September 25, 2025 11:16 pm

    Can you stop using a little girl as a negative thing? Being a helpless whiny baby isn't a feminine thing, it's just terrible writing for both genders. It pisses me off when yall using "he's like a girl" to criticize crybaby ukes. No need for that.

    Also, it's about time that y'all realize bl imitates heterosexual dynamics and the ukes are in place of women. Bl is meant to cater to fujos with the uke and seme dynamic that are basically het sex without pregnancy, except for omegaverse, with the uke being helpless, whiny, crybaby, and the seme being strong, yaoi built, richer or smarter. They're not meant to be an accurate portrayal of gay men who can be manly and hyper-masculine.

    A lot of ukes go through shit though bc plot and so he's forced to depend on the seme and they get closer.

    raine September 26, 2025 12:10 am
    Can you stop using a little girl as a negative thing? Being a helpless whiny baby isn't a feminine thing, it's just terrible writing for both genders. It pisses me off when yall using "he's like a girl" to crit... Selkie

    not reading allat. when i say little girl i mean using a baby voice and acting like a spoiled little girl, i am a woman ik wtf im talking abt gn

    raine September 26, 2025 12:10 am
    If I was in some of these ukes lives i would be whining all the time too. Inherited almost infinited debt, death parents/guardians, kidnaping, abuse, attempted rape, crazy exes, raped by their "seme", abuse, co... Qwertyer

    clearly im not speaking abt the ones in bad situations bro

    Eth September 26, 2025 12:57 am

    Not even close to being unpopular, pretty sure there are a lot of ppl who think the same way

    Qwertyer September 26, 2025 1:14 am
    clearly im not speaking abt the ones in bad situations bro raine

    And im just making a joke ik what you meant