
If I was in some of these ukes lives i would be whining all the time too.
Inherited almost infinited debt, death parents/guardians, kidnaping, abuse, attempted rape, crazy exes, raped by their "seme", abuse, completely obsessive and also detashed boyfriends + all the shit that comes with being an Omega.
Lest be a little more empathetic, some of them are doing well with all the trauma they have to go through every day

Can you stop using a little girl as a negative thing? Being a helpless whiny baby isn't a feminine thing, it's just terrible writing for both genders. It pisses me off when yall using "he's like a girl" to criticize crybaby ukes. No need for that.
Also, it's about time that y'all realize bl imitates heterosexual dynamics and the ukes are in place of women. Bl is meant to cater to fujos with the uke and seme dynamic that are basically het sex without pregnancy, except for omegaverse, with the uke being helpless, whiny, crybaby, and the seme being strong, yaoi built, richer or smarter. They're not meant to be an accurate portrayal of gay men who can be manly and hyper-masculine.
A lot of ukes go through shit though bc plot and so he's forced to depend on the seme and they get closer.
this lowkey might be an unpopular opinion but i fucking cannot stand in yaois where they make the bottom just clueless, babyish, and just a whiner. like i understand being emotional & a lot of times people can be clueless in certain situations, but why tf is this mf crying every chapter, whining over everything, being childish and really acting like a little girl i never understand that shit man.